Ok so i was talking with my boyrfriend, and we just happen to be talkin about my baby's father, so I was like "I only talk to him when the baby needs something" so on.....and he my boyfriend was like " So even if I marry you I still gotta deal with him". Does this me he is possibly thinking about us getting married, or is he 'just saying'?
2006-10-15 10:21:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
yes, he thinks about marrying you. maybe hes saying he doesnt like the idea of having to deal w/ your babys father forever & hes thinking about that,too.
2006-10-15 10:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the back of their minds they are always thinking about this. Make sure that he is aware of your situation, because no, it probably will not change with your baby's father. If you are at a serious level it is good to let him know what the future will hold, good and bad!
2006-10-15 10:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by JoeJOE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's thinking about it! And he probably wants to know what you are going to say as far as the childs father! Don't really look into that too much! Just be honest with him!
2006-10-15 10:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by Black Betty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well saying that you see him when the baby needs something,,,just tells him that if he was able to give you what you and the baby needs...then he could do that. Marriage may be what he was asking...but maybe he just really doesn't trust you all the way...maybe you see him too much....sometimes a baby needs a lot of stuff....
2006-10-15 12:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarly. you know that men are wired and they act differently, He probably think loudly and yes it is possible that he just had that thought for a while. But if he wants to marry you he would just ask you or keep silent. Men usually don't mean what they say.
2006-10-15 10:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definitely sees it as a possibility but just keep in mind to tell him that no matter what happens your child's father needs to still be involved and he has to accept that
2006-10-15 10:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too excited - it sounds more like it would drive him away - that he'd have to put up with the baggage of the other guy.
2006-10-15 10:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it sounds that he was bringing the topic up to see how you would react..testing the waters so to speak...
2006-10-15 10:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by CHERRYSCION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋