His punishment included making him go in to the nursery/toddler room 1 sunday and apologizing to the staff. He came back and told us he needed to either do chores for them for an entire morning and if he refused or gave them a hard time then he should maybe spend the rest of the time there as 1 of the kids so he could see what it was really like to be a baby and maybe he would think differently about what he did. Is this reasonable punishment?
Is it fine for him to have to wear diapers during the day? Should I change him then?
2006-10-15 10:21:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Why in the world would a 13 yr old steal diapers????before deciding punishment...I think I would make him explain himself. Why did you steal diapers?
2006-10-15 10:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very reasonable. He could have been given a lot worse for what he did. He is lucky it was a church nursery instead of somewhere else that may have reported him to the police or something like that where his punishment could be more severe.
Maybe if he has to go to the nursery and be treated as one of the kids he will know what the consequences of his actions would be.
I would hope he would learn a valuable lesson from the experience and maybe teach him some responsibility.
I would also ask him why he wanted the diapers. Does he want them for someone that is needy and couldn't afford to buy them? In that case then he just needs to be taught how the church deals with people that have that and other types of need.
If he wants them for himself to wear then you need to figure out why. Does he have a problem and need to wear them or does he have a desire to be in diapers again? He may have too much stress in his life and wants to go back to a time when he didn't have to worry about anything, back to when he was in diapers and every need was taked care of for him and he didn't have to make decisions.
Talk with him and find out what is going on in his life, it sounds to me like you may be out of touch with him a little bit too much.
Good luck and may God bless all of you.
2006-10-15 14:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is getting into fetish territory - let's just stick to an appropriate punishment like working off the debt by working one hour in the church nursery. However, I would not allow him to change any babies' diapers as he may have some weird fetsih developing. rather, let him serve snacks, wash tables, read stories to the kids or help with art projects.
I would also try to figure out what he was planning to do with those diapers - and have him talk to a counselor.
2006-10-15 10:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer tension him to positioned on diapers, many father and mom have tried this interior the previous however the question you need to ask your self is; Is it worth all of the money i could ought to spend on treatment. Yep it quite is superb infants who undergo humiliation punishment oftentimes finally end up wanting treatment. Your son might have in simple terms been curious with regard to the diapers and become to afraid to talk to you approximately it, or maybe he in simple terms did no longer want you to correctly known approximately his interest because of fact he concept you may react badly to it. Your so may be turning out to be or is an infantist or diaper lover. Neither of those issues is undesirable no remember what every person except says. A diaper lover is somebody who has the two a sexual fetish approximately diapers or somebody who loves the way diapers lead them to sense. And an infantilist is somebody who needs to act and be dealt with as a splash one, there are a number of categories of infantilists too. i individually recommend which you sit down your son down and characteristic a verbal substitute with him, assure him that no remember what he says or does which you will continually love him and then ask him why he stole the diapers ask him if he could like it in case you purchased him some, be awareness no remember what he says because of fact whether it quite is between the failings i discussed there is not any beatting it or punishing it out of him, he will continually sense that way for something of his existence, yet what you do impacts the way he will look at those desires and while you're making him think of that they are undesirable then he will continually think of that there is something incorrect with him and he might finally end up slipping right into a deep melancholy later in existence and want a lot of treatment or he might in simple terms kill himself.
2016-10-19 11:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he should have to apologize and maybe buy the nursery a pack of diapers with his own money so he can see how much money it takes to purchase them.He will get the point. But humiliating him is only going to break his spirit. Discipline him and forgive him dont make it a long drawn out ordeal.
2006-10-15 10:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by mommyoangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why he stole the diapers, that is question need to be answer,
dose know an baby who need diapers
2006-10-15 10:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by justmejimw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! Why did he steal the diapers?! You should dress him up like a baby on a school day! Be sure to take some pics!
2006-10-15 10:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by katiekcat5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
you are such a troll
dope boy magic perhaps?
2006-10-15 10:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you think.
2006-10-15 10:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just being cruel
2006-10-15 10:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by FLOYD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋