I had a minor fight with my friend a couple days ago. Let me tell yall that we've been friend for like 12 yrs now. The fight was basicly b/c I let her sister in the front seat of the car and she got pissed off. She pitched a fit and said she wasnt going to go to the store if she wasnt in the front. So I said "fine I'm leaving" her sister was in the car and my friend said "F*&# you Bi#@!" Ok so I took her sister back to her house. Later that night I was still mad so when I myspace and wrote somethings in spanish that weren't exactly nice also I put somethings in english also not nice BUT they werent directly to her I never said her name or what happened I just let some anger out and I posted it. Yep I got stupid and posted it all 4 post on myspace so people could see.
I didn't know she had read the post b/c I took them off the bulletin like 2 or 3 hours later. I found out she wan't mad at me for leaving her but b/c of what I posted.
I said I was EXTREMLY sorry in all ways possible.
2006-10-15 10:20:19 · 11 answers · asked by edith_pr1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should say your sorry and you didit only because you thought she was mad at you
2006-10-15 10:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by sk8erhjk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend of 12 yrs is acting a little childish, but posting those comments were REALLY childish! Anger can bring out the worst in us all and cause us to do some really stupid things. You made a terrible boo-boo!!! But at least you were mature enough to admit you were wrong. Write your friend a handwritten letter of apology and go myspace and make a public apology, both in Spanish and English. All you can do is to say I'm sorry.It will be up to her to forgive you, but you too must forgive her.
2006-10-15 17:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by drew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you really are sorry, you were only venting on myspace and that you deleted it b/c you realized you had gone to far. She in my opinion was acting like a baby fighting for the front seat. Just explain it to her and let her know it is not worth ruining a 12 yr friendship over.
2006-10-15 17:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by TrueLibra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made the CHOICE to post some nasty things about someone and at the time didn't even care to think about the consequences. You got what you deserved. Maybe next time you will think before saying nasty things about people in public whether you "take them back" or not. Once a nasty thing is in public there is no "taking it back". Hopefully you've learned a lesson and hopefully you haven't lost a friend because of it. If so, that is pay back for you wanting to hurt her.
2006-10-15 17:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to answer such a question without knowing your relationship better, but sometimes alittle time going by allows peoples hurt feelings to soften. Try again in a few days. Or post an apology on the my space if that was what offended her. Good luck
2006-10-15 17:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were a public twit and now you need to publicly apologize. In the same places you posted the nasty remarks, you need to write a heartfelt apology. You need to admit you were a b*tch, and saying those things was petty, childish and down right mean. You need to grovel...big time...and mean every word of it.
If you're LUCKY...she'll accept your PUBLIC apology.
2006-10-15 17:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about posting an apology on myspace.....using her name this time. You insulted her publicly, so apologize publicly.... that way anyone who read the original post would see it.... and she'd know you meant it. Time for you to swallow some crap!!!
2006-10-15 17:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I have benn mad at a couple of people in my life so I can help, if you go up to your friend and say that you are sorry and that you did wrong then everything will be fine.
2006-10-15 17:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by ruthyroo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time. it happened to me and about two months later we got back together. just don't talk to her let her cool off.
2006-10-15 17:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way to go. you aren't that smart. your bad
2006-10-15 17:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by Tda11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋