i dated a guy b4 him 4 7 months nd he told him dat he was sexually involved wiy me.......whch wasnt so .so he says he cant get dis thin out of his head nd cant marry a girl with an affair b4.bt he loves me nd cant stay witout me also.....
2006-10-15 09:49:58 · 10 answers · asked by tanisha 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
for one, if this new boyfriend LOVES you, regardless of your past, he should let it go and move forward. he himself, is not perfect. i am sure he has had his fill of other women before he met you. and again if not, he still needs to grow up, and move on. living in the past is not healthy for any relationship. love overcomes many obstacles...but only if the person wants it to be. trust and honesty is a big key factor for any relationship, especially if you are thinking about marriage. people screw up all the time. no one is perfect, nor will they be. he needs to have faith, and drop your past. if he loves you, he needs to comfort and support you with whatever you may have done. God knows you, and keep the faith with Him. if this man loves you, he will drop it and forget it and move forward with you. good luck.
2006-10-15 09:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by dragonsclaw27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy's been with you for four years and says he loves you so why is he taking the word of your ex instead of believing you? At the age of 19 your boyfriend is far too immature to be even thinking about marriage. If he loves you he would believe and trust you and even if you weren't a virgin it shouldn't matter. If that's not something he can live with, you need to move and find a guy who isn't looking for perfection.
2006-10-15 10:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 11:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freshman Comp. would do wonders for you. He needs to trust your word more than some guy who you flirted with 4 years ago. If he's overreacting this much, he may not be marriage material.
2006-10-15 09:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by Snickle Beast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's crazy to think that this guy wants to marry you.he merely wants to use you, and his cope-out line is pretty transparent.If you still fall for his line, don't blame men in general, just your stupidity - u r askin 4 it !
2006-10-15 20:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm sure neither were impressed with your spelling and grammar
2006-10-15 09:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak proper english
2006-10-15 09:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by blueyedbrett90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the truth and explain everything
2006-10-15 09:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by sash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great english
2006-10-16 03:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by littu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please translate into proper English...
2006-10-15 10:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋