I have asked this before but I need more answers and more help this time.Im an introvert and people say Im not friendly.Some even say Im arrogant and proud.Its all coz I find it hard to interact with people.I have seen people getting friendly too easily but for me its too difficult.Im going to meet my fiance's family in a week and they too feel Im not friendly.I want to change their opinion about me.I want them to say that Im friendly.Can you give me tips on this?How can I make friends easily?Please help me!
2006-10-15 09:39:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Smile, interact, and engage in conversation the best you can. If you aren't much of a talker, then ask questions and listen to the answers.
You also want to hug your fiance's parents when you meet them and say goodbye. Be polite and sweet....you will be fine!
2006-10-15 09:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by Agent99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well half of your problem is already fixed!
You know that maybe something has to change...for others to understand you.
Being introverted is not easy...its really part of who you are.
You must have done something right! to meet your fiance!!...he saw something he liked.!
I would do this with his family.
Tell your fiance to tell them(before you go)how you are.
That you take a while to warm to people...and are introverted, but that he loves you and they will too...later.o.k.
When you meet them...imagine you are with someone very famous...and you want to make a big impression.''Just don't try toooo hard''..o.k. But, your fiance will have to do the hard work for you on this one....really. All the best and good luck girl!
2006-10-15 09:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the personal Behavior my dear...if u prefers for being remain solicited, it does not mean u r arrogant or something else..But its other's duty to understand ur nature.
2- if u want this habbit to remove, though im also like that and i like my this attitude, but if u want to rid off, ...........
then try find daunting attitude, whr u must have been deprived severly once in a time..(may be when u was child or young)..its pure psychological...but it is very much clear....The Person who is beingly treated(by whole or sometime)in depriviation He loses the courage in herself or himself.
3-Try intermingle things around u ...
4- Try talking too much without noticing herself, dont think that is u but just think "u r here to talk so that ur fiance's family never feels that u r the one who is scare from something)
5-Always incourage urself infront of mirror that u r something special to whom no can leave no one can face off no one can ignore ..Because im the special and the most Beautiful of all
6-Create some Communication Skills around u..Make friends even u dont like them,,Sit besides them and try to impress them, this attitude will bring u Confidence.
7- ur Topic should have been From Famous writer's Book(if u dnt read book then read) then discuss ..if there is no to discuss on..then leave it..and Try to find wht other person is interested in..find the reason and discuss on it..
8-Never think too much abt Past or Present..just try to intermingle things around u..liike listening music seeing movies..etc..
9- Love urself because u r the Most Beautiful Girl with Sharp mind..
Try this ...Chaoo sweet
2006-10-15 10:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be hard to begin with. BUT practice makes perfect. smile at everyone, greet them - morning!, talk about the weather -what a gorgeous day/ oh it is a bit chilly isn't it?/phew it is rather warm, etc and then if you think the opposite party seems interested introduce yourself and talk about the current news or yourself ( just this and that - do not divulge important info). talk about all and sundry helps to have a baby or a dog with you. offer to take a friend's baby 4 a walk!!. b4 u kno it u will be an extrovert. - good luck
2006-10-15 09:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by carol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the people you are most comfortable with. Try to open up with them, exposing your feelings a bit and allowing yourself to be vulnerable. Tell them your real opinions, ask them to tell you what they don't like about you.
It sounds like you are afraid of embarassment or criticism, and the way you protect yourself is keeping to yourself. There is nothing wrong with this if you don't mind the reactions other people will have to you. Since you do care, you will have to start coming out of your shell. Best to do that with people you trust. It can also help to do it anonymously, where you can just bail out if it gets to be too much. In any case, you need to open up, or people will never find out who you are, and will assume that you think you are just too good for them.
2006-10-15 09:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by Dentata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile....that is first. Also up until the date trying going in public and saying hi to strangers as you walk past them. If they dont respond move on. You have to get comfortable with people. At work or school(?) try to introduce yourself to new people. You will get better with practice. But remember to SMILE....and listen to what they have to say. FInd a way to relate. Good Luck
2006-10-15 09:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just b yourself- listen to what they have to say an show a genuine intrest in what they have to say
2006-10-15 09:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by floors1958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋