how dose an ugly girl portray confidence if she has none?

Question

i know u should be comfortable and confident with yourslef. but i'm not.. so how do i change that...

Answer 1

I used to be the ugly duckling that nobody wanted and now I am this hot chick that is every mans flavor. Honestly when I was this geek or whatever you may call it, I had no money to spuce things up. Now I work and I get my nails, hair, and toes done. I have a style that girls cant understand and men go crazy over. It is all about making over yourself to who you want to be.

Answer 2

I used to have a low self esteem like you. I think of myself as someone that is not good at anything. But one day i look at the mirror and tell myself that i must not wallow in self pity. I must show the world who i am. So i did. I enhance my best quality and soon i have the confidence to go out in the world and show them what i have. No matter how many times you will have a make over and no matter how many people think that you are not ugly but if u think u are ugly it will still be the same. look in the mirror and check yourself out. Check for the best assets you have and enhance them. Got great cheekbones? Apply blush. Got great legs? wear mini skirts. Show to them what you've got. :) Also if you have talents then develop them coz you are good at it. Also check for your flaws and change them for the better. Remind yourself that ou are good at something. If you learn to appreciate yourself then people would appreciate you. :) Just be yourself. Just contact me if you want more help and advise. :)

Answer 3

Having confidence may take time, but first you need to accept yourself the way God created you. Take good care of your body by eating healthy food, or exercising if you can. But don't try to diet, it doesn't always help loose weight. Take care of your appearance in a way that you don't over dress and put soo much makeup but always be presentable to the places youre attending. And always have POSITIVE attitude. People are drawned to those who are happy, enthusiastic and full of life. Love yourself first then love others, and respect yourself and who you are first then respect others. Your positive attitude and good manners/behaviour will definitely attract others and will inturn give you confidence. And remember that beauty comes from WITHIN. meaning, you must be loving, caring, generous person and through your actions, the beautiful you will come out. And eventually people will love you for who you are. Just be yourself and don't be fake like the girls on t.v. I hope this will help answer your question. Please take care of yourself and be yourself.

Answer 4

you heed my words. if you have friends then you arent too ugly or they would be shallow and hate you right? i mean just be you and be strong. weak people die off if you arent confadent you might be next. stand up strait and say to your self "im a better person than the prety girls!". i give this advice a lot because some of my friends have the same problem and i convinced them(or tried my hardest too) that they wer realy prety and not to listen to what people say about them and just know that people actuly care. I mean even my girlfriend whom i love more than anything thought that way once. everyone has their time when they think they arent worth anything but you just gotta tough your way thru it and know that you deserve better because you are a good person. or if you want you can make friends with someone uglier than you and look good next to them but that is just making them feel the way you do. another good way to show confadence and raise self esteem is to find someone else who is down and help them because you feel good for helping someone else and who knows thye just might look up to you as a role model and there are only a handful of feelings better than being someones hero

Answer 5

what makes you think you are ugly? it is really hard to answer this question without seeing you but beauty is always in the eye of the beholder and is only skin deep if you are doing everything in your power to look as good as you can then you should be proud of it and yourself. exterior looks doesn't make the person. a person can be the best looking on the outside and be extremely ugly on the inside and that will make them ugly to the world and a person can be ugly on the outside and be beautiful on the inside and be beautiful to everyone. so when you look in the mirror don't look at the reflection but look into your soul is it beautiful if not fix that not the outside appearance.

Answer 6

You are not ugly, and stop telling yourself that right now.

You can behave in any way you want and no-one knows what you are thinking - that is what acting is.

However bad you feel, hold your head up, and look everyone confidently in the eye. If you can't look them in the eye, look at their forehead, because they won't know the difference.

Make your body behave in a confident way, and your mind will follow.

Answer 7

Make the decision to not feel sorry for yourself. Who says your ugly anyway? Ask your friends and family what are your best traits, physical and mental, and then dress accordingly to show off your best assests and then join a club or church group where people share the same interest or talents.

Answer 8

Look in the mirror, [every day, every other day] and list all the things you are good at. List all your good qualities. 'Cuase every one is good at SOMETHING, you dont have to be pretty to be good at stuff. And you probably are very pretty. You just dont see it, thats how it is for a lot of people. But, just try why I said. Lookat your self in the mirror, and say everything your good at. Like, Im great at basketball, Or im a really fast runner. Or im very good wiht kids/animals. You know?

Answer 9

First of all you have to stop calling yourself ugly. You need to have a positive view of yourself. Might want to seek help from a therapist for that. They can help you develop a plan to push yourself in the direction that you want to go. The fact that you are seeking to change this is a positive sign in itself.

Answer 10

first of all you need to have an honest person look you over and tell you if you're in fact ugly or just self consious. if you are not too attractive you should go to a beauty salon and ask for help in make up and clothes that make you more attractive. i'm sure there is a way you can change your looks considerably if you really want to. good luck and please send me a picture when you get a make over please. [e-mail]