I know someone who is willing to cheat on their current girlfriend with me, but we have a history from forever, we have been engaged and we still love each other. We only recentely broke up about 3 months ago , and she got with this new girl but she still loves me we were together for 10 months, and this weekend would be our 1 year anniversary. But i want her back so bad and she gonna try and spend it with me, but i feel a lil bad because she has a girl and i know if we go out together it's nothing but chemistry and somethings gonna happen!!!!
2006-10-15 09:27:39 · 12 answers · asked by beautifulpersona 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, that is a touchy subject, it depends on the circumstances, maybe your ex should spend time alone and not be with her current girlfriend because it sounds like you two are still hot for each other. I think cheating is wrong in most situations, but with you guys I am not sure. I have been cheated on and it is not fun. It is very painful if you have feelings for someone and then you find out they cheated on you. But I am talking about a relationship I have had for 6 years, she cheated on me and then lied about it. We are still good friends, this happened in the 90's, we have come a long way, we have forgiven each other. But you and your ex maybe should get back together, just play it by ear, and hopefully the third lady won't get too hurt, but you have to be honest and that way the hurt is lessoned. Good luck to you.
2006-10-15 10:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Answer: Since we're all individuals and social stigmas are relative, how do you feel about cheating? Without glorifying or demonizing the behaviour, how would you feel if the person you were with cheated on you?
My opinion: It's not fair to the third person for many reasons, emotional and STD wise are amongst them. Never trust the cheater you create because there's no guarantee that they won't cheat on you, too.
2006-10-15 16:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by zea_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is wrong because it's hurting the other person in the cheater's life. I was dealing with my ex and he had a new girlfriend (I wasn't with anyone at that time) and in retrospect, what I did was wrong. His girlfriend was really hurt. I was younger then (10 yrs ago) so you live and learn. I'm married now...so I DEFINITELY say it's wrong.
2006-10-15 16:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyedSista 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is always wrong. Any relationship is based on trust. When someone cheats, they betray that trust, and effectively end the relationship. There are no special circumstances, and no excuses for this behavior.
If you want to have sex with someone else, end your current relationship first.
2006-10-15 17:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all mixed up and you need to straighten it out. If your ex is with a new love, you can't be messin in. Leave them alone. If your ex wants to spend time with you again, she's a player, pure and simple. If your ex is committed to someone, then it's definitely wrong. She needs to break it off with her current love before getting back with you.
2006-10-15 16:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about the feelings of the person being cheated on, and how you would feel if you were cheated on, and then ask yourself that questions again.
2006-10-15 17:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves you she will end the relationship she is presently in and go back to you. I understand how you feel but she will not respect you if you just let her have it both ways. Hang in there and demand respect.
2006-10-15 16:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is so wrong just think how you would feel if your gf cheated on you,she broke that trust!
2006-10-15 16:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do.
I think it's wrong because most of the time it hurts your bf/gf and that's not fair.
2006-10-15 17:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by rhBoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is wrong and stupid why would u want to share someone it just hurts everyone including yourself
2006-10-15 16:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by earthgoddess777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋