ok i want to know if you guys think im careing i will tell you the truth about everything and i want honest opinoins im there for my friends but i dont be all over them i dont really hug them when there upseat because im not good at that but i lisen to there problems i tell them good job when they do good and i let them know when there not doing the right things the only reason im asking this is because one of my friends said i was too cold do youn think that was right for her to say
2006-10-15 09:27:13 · 2 answers · asked by sk8erhjk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Some people just aren't into being huggy. I don't hug my friends and find it awkward if they hug me. Your friend was out of line to suggest you were cold. Don't worry about it...be yourself because you can't force yourself to be someone you aren't. Just continue to be a good listener but be careful how you phrase your suggestions to them.
2006-10-16 11:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that you cannot control what other people think of you.
If you have 10 friends, there are 10 different opinions. Don't sweat this and that's a bad angle to work from - 'working from what people think of you'. Just be true to yourself.
2006-10-15 17:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by B N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋