im depressed, this boy i really like fancies my friend so i have no chance! give me some ideas to make me happy again please! i have tried but nothing i think of is seeming to help.
2006-10-15 09:20:44 · 13 answers · asked by NoYouHangUp.. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
start seeing a school counselor for a few visits .. .
2006-10-15 09:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are many fish in the sea. Find another one who better than this boy. I am sure you do not want to upset your friend over this boy. It may be infatuation that causing you to fancy him.You will get over it once you find some one else.
2006-10-15 12:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by shiningstar2808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the first guy I ever dated cheated on me my mother asked me why I was sitting around crying about it. I explained my devistation and she replied, "The only one who can allow you to be upset is yourself." It was one of the best lessons she ever taught me. In life and love, crap happens. You can feel sorry for yourself, or make the decision that you wont allow yourself to be upset anymore. The past is the past and move on. Cry for the last time and they dont let yourself cry over it again. It will not only test your own personal strength, but make you stronger in the future. Besides, why would you waste your time on someone who doesnt want to be with you. He's clearly ignorant! Keep yourself busy... What's the line from that song "God gave us mountains, so we could learn how to climb."
2006-10-15 09:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur under 20: cool it! ur still a kid, you got time!
over 20: try going to places you like to hang out and maybe you will meet somebody with same interests
if ur over 40: and still haven't found anybody, try match making sites or ask ur friends (not that one) or ur family to help you find a guy.
~i already know your under 20, but this is for everyone. don't worry, u got time. it may take some time to get over it, but just see the bad parts about him, and always know if God didn't give you what you want, that means he has something better for you! :)
2006-10-15 09:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have a girls night out, give your number out to cute guys, and move on.
The old saying always rings true: "they're other fish in the sea"
In your case you might have to do the fishing instead of being one of the fish.
2006-10-15 09:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been in the exact same situation. In the meantime, look for a new "someone" to crush on, and the guy will soon be a past crush.
2006-10-15 09:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well love lose the friend find another boy thats what any other girl in america would do why should it be any different in the uk right?
2006-10-15 09:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is more to life than this....
go out with your friends, do fun things, stop mopping about
2006-10-15 09:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by Raine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's worse things, MUCH worse things. dont worry about the little stuff
2006-10-15 09:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go see John Tucker Must Die.............made me feel better!!
2006-10-15 22:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by life_vamp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋