I have a best friend that ive known for 9 years now, and i have a best friend ive known for 7 years. My 2 best friends cant stand eachother, they both asked me can i go with them to the movies next week saturday. same time, same place. I luv them both dearly,, but i dont know what to do.
2006-10-15 08:46:36 · 18 answers · asked by Rockii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We'll until you are in your best friend's situation its hard to know how to handle them. And Ive been in your best friend's situation before. I would go to the movie's with the first person who asked you first, and then go to the movie with the 2nd friend who asked you another time. Since the two friends do not get along.
Trust me it will be easier on you and on the friend's. Otherwise it will not be fun for you, And it will make you and everyone miserable and you will not have a good time and you will wish that you would have not been their to begin with.
It is very common that friends of friends don't like each other or get along and that's ok. Sometimes, 3 is a crowd. And maybe that's why the two friend's don't really like each other or can't stand each otherh so to speak.
Hope this helps. Just wanted to let you know that your not the only one going thru this situation, but coming from a best friend point of view.
2006-10-15 10:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by jrealitytv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If U know what time the movie starts-tell 9 yr friend you've made plans to go to movie and if she wants to go to meet you there at 7 & tell the friend of 7 years-the same thing-if they refuse to go---go alone & let the other 2 friends realize there is only one of you & you can't be split to be in 2 places at the same time.
2006-10-15 08:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first try to find out why they hate eachother so much then fix the problem then you can all go together. If you cant fix the problem tell one of the friends that you cant make it on that day because you hac made plans with someone else then try to find a day that you both are free. Well good luck.
2006-10-15 08:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by christina t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you can't make a decision and going with both at the same time is out of the question.. Go with whoever asked you first and tell the other one I'm sorry but ______ asked me to go first . Worst case scenario they get pissed and stop talking to you they weren't worth having as a friend in the first place
2006-10-15 08:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask one if you can hangout with them another time.Or you can just not go with either because you do not want to hurt one friend's feelings and make the other one think you like them better.Tell them both that you will not go with either because it would not be fair.Or another option,which probably woudl not work,would b to go by yourself,but sit by both of them,you being in the mddle.
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2006-10-15 09:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by bev_lev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell both of them yes, but you will have to meet them there. They don't have to know the other one is going. It's a public place and you sit in the middle.
2006-10-15 08:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them both know that you are going to the movies on Saturday and that they are welcome to join you if they can both be mature enough to get along with each other and respect the fact that you are friends with them both.
2006-10-15 08:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say u'll go w/ both of them
really, they should say ok, cause they don't have to talk to each other. but if 1 is gonna make u choose like "eather ur going with me or i'm not going at all", than u can c which friends beter.
thats like a test on ur friendship
2006-10-15 08:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with one, then make a date to go with the other the following day. If they give you lip about "Why did you go with her first?" Tell them it's your decision to make, it has no bearing on your friendship; consider that another option would have been not to go with her at all.
2006-10-15 08:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always go with the one that asked you first. If the two of them don't like each other, don't make it your problem. Have fun!!!
2006-10-15 08:49:58 · answer #10 · answered by winona e 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋