I'm tired of competing with all the pretty girls. I mean everyone calls me pretty... but If I really am... then why can't I get this one guy? :( HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-15 08:27:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hmm wat a predicament... it could be because they see you as a friend and nothing more..
2006-10-15 08:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jorge R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa...slow down now. No one can get every guy or gal they want. You should just try to be more open and enjoy what comes along. You may be pleasantly surprised by what you find. Just try to be open, honest, and pleasant and you will meet so many wonderful people to share some good times with. I'm sure you are pretty. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
2006-10-15 15:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you give up on guys...are you gonna start dating MEN?? Guys when they are in high school just dont get it...its all about them...they dont even want to comprehend what is going on with you....maybe you are giving off a vibe that you are not wanting anything more then friends...or maybe he just isnt interest...stop looking for a guy or bf just be yourself and you wont beleive how many guys will want to date you...there probably is already a number of guys that are liking you right now but your all into this one guy to notice.
2006-10-15 15:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be clean and keep your appearance up. Dont give up on your looks just because some other girls are supposedly "prettier" than you are. Trust me - guys cant help themselves over a confident girl. The ugliest girl in the world can have very high confidence about her and get tons of men. Just be confident in what you do and act like you don't care./
2006-10-15 15:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by Déjà Vu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could they give u attention when u r already trying to get their attention give it up may be its not the right time for u find someone especial.
2006-10-15 15:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by Fahim . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them come to you. You should never chase a guy! Honestly you seem to find them when you aren't looking. Dont put so much pressure on yourself, why do you need a guy. Once you are happy and healthy, and you gain that confidence that you dont need a guy, they'll start crawling all over you hunnie!
2006-10-15 15:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe the guy dont like you back but there probally is a guy out there for you somewhere all you have to do is find him so be patient and dont give up you will find the perfect person for you.
2006-10-15 15:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by christina t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be because that guy just doesnt see u that way, or that you may be trying to hard. Guys like to chase after a girl, but once that girl makes herself too available they loose interest. Just be yourself and stop worrying about trying to impress them. If you build up ur self confidence, it will be the guys who will be trying to impress you.
2006-10-15 15:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Maryannette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up you just haven't found the right person for you yet. Don't focus all your attention on one guy and when you least expect it someone will come around.
2006-10-15 15:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by teeka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok PLEASE READ this carefully...
you are saying you cant get guys attention...but it seems to me you only trying to get one guy's attention. If you are cute, nice, intelligent there are probably plenty of guys that like you and you dont even notice because you only have eyes for that one guy.
You can do better, so forget about him and start paying attention to see who looks at you when you are walking...
2006-10-15 15:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by kinito_2000_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you give up on guys where do u go next.... women or latex?
think about it... if hes not being receptive to your advancements. stop! men are more receptive to those who play a lil hard to get then the ones who are throwin panties at our feet
2006-10-15 15:31:28 · answer #11 · answered by dawggiestile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋