this guy likes one of us. but we don't really know which one because he flirts with both of us.
2006-10-15 08:24:41 · 17 answers · asked by kdm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Since you and her are best friends I think that you and her should talk about the situation....I understand that he's likes one of u and so you and her should discuss if she would feel comfortable if you and him started dating and vica versa and if it make one of yall uncomfortable the neither one of yall should date him because men come and go but friends are forever.
2006-10-15 08:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sexii Slim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he flirts with both of and one of you start dating him there will just be two things to fight about. 1. your dating the guy she likes too.2. he flirts with your friend when hes dating you. so basically you have to decide is your friendship more important than this guy. if it is then neither of you should date him besides when you find the guy for you he will only flirt with you not your friends
2006-10-15 15:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by teresak713 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does not matter who knew him first.What matters is which one he has the most in common with and it may not be either one of you. He may just enjoy flirting with both of you.
You should both on to another guy. If he does realley like one of you he will make that known then, if not you still have a friend and you will have some else that likes you
2006-10-15 15:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight up with the guy. Those dys of wondering who the guy like is gone, nowadays it's first come-first serve, and you gotta step up to the plate and ask the guy.
As for your friend, shes probably asking the same question, so, do you want to be the one watching your guy being taken away, or do you wanna be the one by his side?
2006-10-15 15:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by Niyela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fight over the guy but how ever gets him first then that's WHO gets him. But if I knew my friend was interested in someone that bad, whether or not i seen him first, i would let it go. Our friendship is more important. If she's really a good friend then you'll let the guy go cause nothing is worth risking your friendship. Good Luck.
2006-10-15 15:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by teeka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, find yourself a new best friend. Friends that are real, do not like the same guy. As you get older, you know that guys come and go, sometimes even husbands, but your best friend will always be...if he was your crush first, she should have known that it would hurt you if she started liking him too.Good-luck.
2006-10-15 15:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes neither of you, and he's flirting just for the fun of it, if you two fought for him, you'd be out of a friendship and a guy. good friends stick around a lot longer than guys do.
2006-10-15 15:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by completepsycho. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do NOT fight 4 the guy
the last thing u want is ur friend and u fighting just cuz of a crush
ask him hoo he likes since u know that he DOES like one of u
GO FOR IT!
because if she gets the guy, then u mite regret it 1 day
ask him asap!
2006-10-15 15:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by jumanjifaceee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well me and my friend are the same way right now and she has stolen all of my b.f's so i called him to see what he thought because my friend got all mad and he said he liked me. So you could always call him and see what he says or talk to his friends just remember a guy isnt worth losing your friend over.
2006-10-15 15:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by christina t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends should come first... perhaps you both should let this fish go and find others so you don't ruin your friendship over it!
2006-10-15 15:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by i_love_my_mp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋