Your ex- boy friend told you family that you act like child. So they told you what he said. But you love him and you what to go back out with him. You see him and you feel like crying. But the bad thing is you broke up with him and now you feel bad. What do you do about this and he is 19 years old and you are 16 years old turning 17 years old.
2006-10-15 07:48:33 · 23 answers · asked by tink172007 1 in Dining Out ➔ Other - Dining Out
i say you talk to him about it.
tell him that you know he thinks you act like a child. and how his reasoning makes you feel.
do you agree/disagree with him?
do you think he deserves you if he can't even respect you?
are you willing to change for him?
is he wililng to change for you?
aks yourself and ask him.
if you are too embarassed/scared etc. to talk to him... then maybe you should re-think the relationship.
a broken heart is hard to mend. the longer you wait. the harder it gets.
good luck!
2006-10-15 07:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok there has got to be a reason, why you call him your, "ex" right? You must of felt that the relationship was not going the way you thought you wanted it too, so you broke up with him. And I am sure you have heard this over and over again, but you are very young. Number one don't ever feel bad about breaking up with someone. There is a reason for it and to be honest, you will get over him eventually. Besides if he told your family that you act like a child, then why is he dating a child then? Think about it, your just turning 17. He is only 19, so I am sure he is guilty of the same behavior too. And he shouldn't be telling your family anything, he should be telling you, to your face. You may want to think about giving this relationship some time and space. Enjoy your life right now, with your friends your family, and believe me when your not looking, you will find someone that will treat you like a lady, not a child.
2006-10-15 15:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he's a jerk who will never treat you right. You're better off without him. Also, it's normal to feel bad that the relationship is over. You cared for him a lot and you enjoyed being with him. But since he is a jerk, you did the right thing in breaking it off. Mourn the end of your relationship, then move on. Under no circumstances should you get back together with him. There are plenty of awesome guys out there!
2006-10-15 14:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by kris 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're 16 years old and he is 19. I know it's only 3 years, but you are in different places at this point in your life. Hang out with your friends, go to your family for support, and just have fun. Yes, you miss him and yes, you're sad right now, but you'll be okay. Hang in there.
2006-10-15 21:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by Meg 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get yourself involved in something that you really love to do. Example: I volunteer with a horse farm that rescues horses. I love it. That way, if you meet someone that you like, you will already have something in common with them and chances are that relationship will be a happier one.
When you feel like crying about this relationship, try to think of something that you find enjoyable that will put a smile on your face, but also realize that your feelings of sadness are normal when a relationship ends and that it is really only temporary. You'll be smiling without thinking about it in a few short weeks.
Best of luck.
2006-10-15 17:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by Animaholic 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let yourself be upset about it but set a time-limit after which you choose to be fine. In the meantime, make a list of the things you like and the things you do not like about him. You'll probably find there are more things in the last list than you expected ;-)
2006-10-15 14:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by the phoner 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Since you have posted the same question 3 different times I can see I would have to agree with him!!!!
2006-10-15 15:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by tarl_cabot_2k 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him! if he said something that you didn't like then he doesn't know enough about you! you don't need him! just move on! There will be other guys! some better some worse! but if he said something you didn't like... then just get away from him!
2006-10-15 17:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by xXCutiexKittyXx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And he's worth crying over because???? Let it go. Let him criticize someone new and tell their parents. Be relieved it won't be you anymore. Move on.
2006-10-15 18:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by fried_twinkie1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get over him..he cant love u 4 who u r.
2006-10-15 20:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by gurlie_gurl<33 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋