MATURE responses only PLEASE. how can you have a sexual relationship with someone for over a year and STILL not have any feelings for the woman?
2006-10-15 07:46:16 · 13 answers · asked by goddess1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Every man is different. We may all be similar in some aspects, but we all have our hang-ups. How was his relationship with his family? Was he loved? Has he always hid his feelings behind his machoness? Is there someone else? Maybe he feels the need to hide his feelings to keep himself protected. Kind of a defense thing. I know I couldn't sleep with a woman for a year and not feel anything for her. Maybe he's just totally evil. Some men are.
2006-10-15 07:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by skylerrrr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some men only want a physical relationship with any woman who is willing to provide it. There are men who connect to a woman on many levels, not just the physical, but you must look for them. You will not likely find a man who is interested in a long term, family-style relationship in a singles bar or nightclub or booze parties. 'If you want to hunt elephants, you must go where the elephants are' definitely applies in this situation. If you want a man who will connect to you at many levels and remain connected to you for a long time, then find a place where such men hang out and go there. If you make yourself sexually available for any man you think might like you eventually, you are likely going to continue to be disappointed. You must carefully choose with whom you associate and especially with whom you share your most intimate self. If you want to really know whether a man is serious about a long term relationship, tell him up front that you will never have sex with anyone who is not your husband. If he's serious he will stick around; if not he'll be gone in a heartbeat.
2006-10-15 08:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster1945 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause that just what you got,a sexual relationship.When you show him nothing else but sex that's all he's going to show you back.Most women develop deep feelings with the one there sleeping with,when most men don't,they tend to just love the act and who's giving it.So they just love the feeling and leave it at that. Most times if that's the way it started,it will end the same way.Now that doesn't mean he don't love you,he's not going to be the first to admit theres more to it than that.What to see?Tell him you want to see other people and watch how he reacts.
2006-10-15 08:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds fairly sexist. the muse of rejecting the theory that intercourse and friendship could desire to be linked is exciting (i'm nevertheless no longer keen to call that a competent theory, on condition that intercourse often has intense effects, somewhat once you're intentionally holding your self at ineffective night approximately the different individual) - however the theory that adult adult males are the terrific pals for different adult adult males and girls are the terrific pals for different women assumes a stark and inherent character distinction between the sexes.
2016-12-08 15:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do if they are connect with someone. Men can be with many women but still only love one women. Maybe he enjoys her company but it's looking for anything serious.
2006-10-15 07:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by charles j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being serious you need to look at this user,and decide if you have a future with some one who's certainetly using you for SEX!and nothing else.
2006-10-15 07:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by Timmoshanko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are men. Our emotional attachment is on a different level from women.
2006-10-15 07:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how all started. ANd, if you let him hit that too early, he won't fall. And, if the lady couldn't put the man into her world, he won't fall. But, he sure will want to get laid when he's freaky. ANd, what tells you you're the only one he's having????? If no, he must love one of y'all. Seriously.
2006-10-15 08:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by kolugy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos most guys get told or learn from other guys or friends that its the "s**t" and also that they have to be hard and not be like a pansy! so thats why guys dont really show there emotions that much! although you do get the occasional guy that will share everything with you!
2006-10-15 07:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by ladies man! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't but u can make the feelings into controlable factions to controle the emotinal bs that life has given u..
most probably he has comitmant issues
sorry good luck
2006-10-15 11:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by tim h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋