I want to have a baby so bad. I can't get pregnant though. It makes me very upset when I see girls getting pregnant everyday and throwing the baby in the trash or killing the baby. Because there are so many women out there like me who want to have a baby but can't and then there are the ones who have them often and just throw them away. So if you know a way I could get pregnant please let me know. I don't want to take any drugs to help me get pregnant though. Thank you for your time and help.
2006-10-15 07:42:34 · 8 answers · asked by lori d 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Lori, to get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-10-16 15:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel! My husband and I have only been trying for 3 months, but apparently I'm not even ovulating, which doesn't bode well. Yet I have a friend who's wife just had their 4th baby, and, well, let's just say they have issues. I doesn't seem fair that people who don't want kids get pregnant so easily, while those of us who desparately want kids can't even get pregnant.
You really should go talk to a doctor about your (and your husband's) fertility. There may be ways to increase your chances of getting pregnant without drugs. Also, don't dismiss drugs without a lot of consideration - I know I wouldn't be here if my mom hadn't taken fertility drugs to conceive!
Maybe you're just trying too stressed - I've heard of women who tried and tried and tried to get pregnant, finally gave up on the idea of ever getting pregnant, and then got pregnant! But do go see a doctor to make sure everything is working right!
2006-10-15 08:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by kris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are married then i would suggest having wonderful lovely sex every night and im sure your husband wont mind either. Plus make up fun places like the stairs, livingroom floor, kitchen table fun things and if you find that after 6 months of blissful sex then i would see a fertillity doc b/c he can help you time the moment when you are most fertile. then if that doesnt work i would go for drugs or adoption (save one of those trash can babies)
2006-10-15 07:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by charlie21205 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have 2 teenage daughters and i have a 3 year old and a 2 year old, my husband and i wanted a 3rd child together and it has been so difficult. we tried for 4 years to have my 3 year old and it took 5 mths to have my 2 year old. dont laugh. i get anxious and excited with each pregnancy. i miscarried last year and have been trying since, to no avail. last month we worked out when i would ovulate, my pds are regular. we had sex once or twice a day like clock work for the 5 days around ovulation. we meant business but it was funny too,. then had a break and went back to normal, about every 4 or so days I did a pregnancy test on my due date and it was negative, i am two days late now, sore breast and generally feel different. i am hoping but expect my period to come. I would advise you to work out your ovulation period and have sex often. Good luck..let me know if it works, (alot is down to sheer luck and determination.)
2006-10-15 07:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by rosie_lamb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three years is a very long time to try- I'd advise to go see your doctor or an ob-gyn. They can review your medical history with you and rule out any infertility issues. Also, have you been trying with one partner or several? If it's been one, there may be infertility issues on his side.
Go to your doctor and seek advice. Doing this doesn't mean you'll have to take fertility drugs; just help rule any medical problems out. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-15 07:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by sunshinegrover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go see an Ob-gyn they can find out whats wrong and help you conceive. I use to feel the same way. I guess some people are less fortunate and the ones who actually have that blessing don't never realize how good it was until it is gone. Good Luck
2006-10-15 08:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by Precious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered adoption? I believe some things just happen for a reason. There are a lot of children that are waiting to be adopted that need love. Just a thing to consider.. and maybe that will be the option that's right for you! Some babies are born from the tummy, others from the heart!
2006-10-15 08:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by CourtneyMT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go see a fertility specialist, see what might be the problem, then instead of trying to fix the problem with the Dr's help, try other ways like vitamins and herbs. Lots of Excercise too. Drink Green tea, that might help you too.
Gl to you.
2006-10-15 09:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by babylove 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋