Okay well i just currently found on myspace a pic of my b/f truck in his backyard... (he didnt put a pic of himself)
(Me and my b/f decided not to have a myspace at all!!!) So in other words hes been lying to me!! on his profile he put that he was !!single!! and when i questioned him about it yesterday, he told me that his cousin put the picture up and that, thats his cousin myspace...but everything is such a coincedence like his age, his location, his zodiac sign..and well in his friends he has a bunch of skanks!! he swore to me up and down that its not his, and he even did 3-way calling (me, him,and his cousin) and i asked his cousin and he said that it was his myspace(but i dont believe him) So i broke up w/him 2day....**Do you think i made the right decision??** By the way we've been together for 3 1/2 yrs....Please help what should i do??? and no dumb answers!!!
2006-10-15 07:40:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well I'm sure you've heard the saying if it smells bad then it is bad...
Sounds like it smells bad to me...
If it truly is his cousins myspace then it would have his cousins info.. not his
2006-10-15 07:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a touchy one. I never advise to accept cheating, but, online fun is just online fun unless it gets into really heavy porn and stuff.
If it's a myspace and its just for fun and he's chatting with skanks, I would be pissed but I wouldn't dump him. But he lied about it., so that's bad. Hmmm...
After a few days, if he hasn't taken down the myspace at your request, that says a lot about him. If he takes it down, kiss and make up and don't bring it up again.
2006-10-15 07:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you don't trust him for whatever reason (which I'm sure is more than just the MYSPACE thing...) so you probably made the right decision because w/out trust the relationship is doomed anyway.
2006-10-15 07:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by i_love_my_mp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl.. You stood up for yourself. I would be ticked off too.
Then have him lie about it. He needs to fess up. If he made a mistake he needs to admit to it & be honest. Honestly is very important in a relationship.. You should tell him to put the shoe on the other foot & ask him how would he feel .. if he were in your shoes.
2006-10-15 07:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by Kammaka2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask the cousin...then ask yourself what you feel. If all the signs point in one direction, then you'd better go that way. It can't be that much a cooinkydink that all that info matches his....be smart. be strong...
2006-10-15 07:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by icu292876 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been with him for such a long time. i think you should trust him and believe what he is saying. and don't break up with him on something stupid like my space. no i dont think u made the rught decision.
good luck
2006-10-15 07:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by Lonely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He sounds like a creep. I bet he was lying. Men do that.
2006-10-15 07:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out... don't box him in...give him some space to be honest with you.
2006-10-15 07:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the absolute right thing. if he's going to lie over something so stupid, what else would he lie about? and by BOTHERING to lie about something so stupid, he's covering up something. kudos to you, girl!
2006-10-15 07:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you know and see what he's saying. and then depends on the situation, do what you're suppose to do!
2006-10-15 07:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by Mystical.Waters 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋