he is psychologist
2006-10-15 07:38:25 · 11 answers · asked by bellapatata888 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Tell him to grow up.
2006-10-15 07:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by spongeworthy_us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You BF must've noticed that your time and/or attention for him was diminished because of your online chatting. You focus lesser on your affair and that you may have seemed preoccupied with all the things that happen in the chatroom. You BF must be feeling that your chatmates can easily steal you away from him -- which is not really impossible. Chatmates are friends... but they can steal you away from your BF -- in a sense that you pay more attention to them than your BF and that you rather become less concerned about him anymore.
I encourage you to introduce your BF to your friends online; and at the same time, encourage your BF to be-friend your online friends, too. Your friends online will definitely respect your relationship and you will rather gain your BF's trust. Try sitting together while you're in the chatroom and let him find out what's been going on in there. Chatting online and the subjects discussed in there should not be kept from your BF.
Psychologist or no psychologist, people have the same feeling(s) when it comes to relationship.
2006-10-15 15:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mike N. D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, then you should be talking to him and finding out why. Come to some kind of a compromise in the situation, instead of posting questions here asking us why. Talk to your boyfriend before you end up with your computer and us and no boyfriend. We do not know your boyfriend, so we can not tell you why he does not want you to chat on line. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-15 14:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to rethink your relationship. I do not know of any emotional, physical, or mental pain that can be caused by your interaction with other people. I think he is in pain because he is not in control of you. Personally, time to step away and say WHAT the heck.
2006-10-15 14:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by pariah6.9you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he is afraid that you might meet another man on the internet. he cares for you. but it is insecurity
2006-10-15 15:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by Rockii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
assure him that tour not cheating with him online..i had the same problem...now its all good
2006-10-15 14:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's messing with your head so he can fix it...
either way though, if he's serious, not kidding, it's kind of manipulative...
2006-10-15 14:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are cheating and it is not fair to him. Thus, he is suffering for your cheating.
2006-10-15 14:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by JistheRealDeal 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he thinks you got internet affairs, come on just think aboutn it.
2006-10-15 14:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by Fantasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecurity
2006-10-15 14:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by imcrazy4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋