After two years of dating, I decided to break up with my boyfriend. I cannot imagine my future with him in it but he feels otherwise. He thinks we will get back together again soon but I do not feel this way. Should i give him back the jewelry he has given me during our relationship?
2006-10-15 07:27:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sorry but H E L L N O.
2006-10-15 07:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to my relationship, but it was the other way around. She was making bad decisions, and I was paying for them. ( She has gotten better, since) But when I was considering breaking up with her, I thought about all the stuff I had given her during our time together, But didnt really want it back. I gave it to her because, I wanted her to have it, and it pleased her, so It's hers, no matter what. Its water under the bridge, anyway. the money is already spent. I dont know if Your guy will feel the same way, tho...
2006-10-15 07:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! this will cause very great pain since when u give a gift u feel the other person appreciated the gift. just politely tell him that u have ended the relashionship IF he asks otherwise just stay quiet and aside. BUT PLZ DONT GIVE BACK ANYTHIN ONCE THAT PERSON HAS GIVEN IT TO U.
IT FEELS like HELL :( and u feel regecteda and below ur level.
2006-10-15 07:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure ...give it back with dignity. He gave it under a loving kind pretense. If it is over for you, then break the ties by closing that chapter. You can move on and so can he.
2006-10-15 07:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by blujeanbaby56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definetely not. i broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about 4 years ago. since then i have met another guy and gotten married. i still have the jewlery my ex gave me. if you don't want then maybe try pawning it and see if you can get some money from it
2006-10-15 07:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by buttons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. the jewelry was to signify your love and since you don't love him anymore give it back!
2006-10-15 07:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO way, you dont give back gifts unless you said you will when you break up.. Keep the loot!
2006-10-15 07:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,those were gifts of love unless you knew you didn't love\ want him when he gave it to you.If this is the case then do the right thing and return it.
2006-10-15 07:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes (but not to the point of you should). it'll make it clear that you don't want a second/bonus round. keep it if you want to give him hope. return it if you want to burn the bridge and just be friends. plus it doesn't make you look materialistic. hope you resolve your situation.
2006-10-15 07:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by thomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to go to jail or area 51.
2006-10-15 07:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jonathan W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋