2006-10-15 07:26:56 · 16 answers · asked by moralxtragic7 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
As a guy, when I came out I lost a lot of friends.
I made new ones.
2006-10-15 07:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she thinks it's weird, it doesn't necessarily mean she's saying anything bad. She probably thinks it's weird, having a best friend, that is into women. As long as she's not insulting you or making you feel uncomfortable, I wouldn't worry about it. It might be a good idea, for you to ask your best friend, if your sexual preference, bothers her, if it doe's, I don't see you two being best friends for long. If she's uncomfortable around you, she'll eventually stop coming around, or start making up excuses, not to go places with you. Have that talk, if she's your true friend, nothing about the friendship will change.
2006-10-15 07:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it. give it time. if she has never had an encounter with someone who is lesbian or gay then she may just not know what to do or say. i wouldn't let go of a friendship just cause of her first reaction. you want people to come to accept what you have told them. do so by allowing the same acceptance. accept where they are at and give it time. if she still is uncomfortable about it after some time has passed then let it go. don't go walkin away with attitude or anything. just were she is at. you can still live your life and be happy. you don't need to breed negative feelings.
2006-10-15 07:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she needs to be educated about your sexual preferences. Ignorance is a b itch, and a little information does a lot to put people at ease. Maybe she's afraid you're attracted to her in that way (if it's a girl that is your bestfriend) or maybe s/he's afraid that if you get a girl friend that she'll be left out.
2006-10-15 07:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then she's not really your best friend!
were you friends before you came out or after?did you just recently come out to her?if so give her a little time,talk to her about it and let her know thats she is hurting your feelings.
2006-10-15 07:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by callalily07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a new best friend
2006-10-15 07:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't care so much about it-there are many lesbians, so it is a normal thing.
2006-10-15 07:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she's not a very good friend.
Im bi and if a friend had a problem with it,bye bye.
2006-10-15 07:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey she don't have to participate but she has to respect you especially if she's your friend she'll get over it
2006-10-15 07:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend doesn't support you than i wouldn't call her my best friend.
2006-10-15 07:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by maxi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋