My sister-in-law repeatedly invites my husband on trips and such but does not invite me. She even says she'll pay for his trip (hotel, plane ticket). It has caused problems between my husband and I and I don't know what to do. I have tried to spend time with his sister and befriend her, but she seems to just want to spend time with her husband, his family and her brothers only. I just feel so left out. Please help!
2006-10-15 07:18:34 · 7 answers · asked by jessicarachel06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should explain the situation to your husband. He will know his sister's behavior and probably will be able to solve the problem for you.
2006-10-15 14:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by axix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does this cause problems between you and your husband? He's the one who can fix this, by assuming that you are always invited whenever you are. After all, you and he are like one, being married - you're a new family. Is he not stepping up? Is he actually letting his sister get away with this stuff? Shame on him! Let him read this ... tell him to straighten out his head and his priorities.
2006-10-15 14:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mary C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband that the next time his sister calls tell her that I (your husband) will like to take my wife along too on the trip if u (sister in law) dont mind!!
Surely your hub already feels a little bad about leavin u home...hes bound to understand!!
best of luk!
2006-10-15 14:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there is something wrong between you and your sister in law. I don't think you can do much thing about it coz I feel that even you try your best to build a good rapport with her, she will turned around abd backstabbed you one of these days.
What you can do is that you should tell your hubby about this problem and see how to resolved this problem
2006-10-16 02:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you need to talk to your hubby and let him know how you feel about your sister-in law's attitude. if she wants to be a B.I.T.C.H and you've tried to be friends with her then F.U.C.K. her, the relationship is between you and him not his entire family. don't ask to chose you or his sister, but ask for respect, because you are his wife. And he needs to give you, your place.
2006-10-15 14:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid there's not much YOU can do. It would be mostly up to him to talk to her about it. And if he's not sticking up for you, there's a bigger problem going on here.
2006-10-15 14:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wut u do is sit down with her and tell her what u feel and ask her y she does it then if that dont work jump her well not really just tell her wut u feel it should work if it dont ask me again personally i have a sister lik that and i have messenger or if it dont work tell your huspand to talk to her
2006-10-15 14:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by CHRISTINA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋