i don't believe you have fallen in love with someone else. what i think has happened is you like the feeling of being in love , its excitement , a kind of good nervous feeling that you like , and want more of. turn your attention back to your spouse and remember why you married in the first place. don't make trouble for the whole family. every marriage hits those kinds of times. just save yourself a lot of trouble, and forget loving someone else. its not the person its only the love you are after i think.
2006-10-15 18:56:44
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answered by cee jay 3
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To your husband?Sure you can.If your falling for someone else then your cheating and your wrong and chances are it won't work out cause the whole relationship will be based on lies.How can you believe that he won't cheat on you?You cheated to be with him,so you've just made cheating a OK thing to do with you.Divorce your husband first then see if the relationship with this other person works out.I have the feeling you'll be back asking why did your life go bad.Let me be the first to answer that,cause everything you've done up to now has been based upon lies.Hope i gave you something to think about.But do as you choose.
2006-10-15 14:06:51
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answered by master_der_man 6
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Yes, I am sure you can. It just means that something major is lacking in your relationship with your spouse. Situations like that are tought, because you don't want to stay with someone you don't love anymore, but you also don't want to hurt your kids. I would say, follow your heart. But don't get caught cheating before you get a divorce, if this is the road you chose, because you will probably lose your kids.
2006-10-15 14:28:27
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answered by Anonymous
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sure you can. but lets be real here. if you have fallen in love with someone i suspect that you and your wife have some kind of problems or maybe your not in love with her any more and that happens.but if you are not willing to seek counseling with your wife. then you need to leave her before moving on to someone else.because breaking up a family is hard enough, let alone adding cheating into the mix. but how do you know that you love this other person? please tell me you have not already cheated. i get this feeling that you have. so if so get out of your marriage before you cause to much damage.
2006-10-15 14:12:31
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answered by here to help 4
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yes love doesn't know boundaries not even marriage laws..it is not OK with me personally that you went out on the wife and Kids but I don't know the situation so I cant judge you ...but you can fall in love with any one despite ,marriage,race,society,poor or rich ,etc..but don't expect the wife and kids to accept this and don't be surprised that if you choose to leave that the new "LOVE" drops you fast....alot of woman that go with married men do it for the excitement of maybe getting caught and all that crap..but to each their own but you can fall in love regardless of who it is where you are and whatever time of day it is
2006-10-15 14:04:42
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answered by Alli 3
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hi, yes u can fall in love at ne moment in life but jst think for a second your kids or sombody else,coz at the end kids are the most sufferd part of a broken relation.
2006-10-16 01:06:15
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answered by bhavesh_leo 2
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i don't think that being married, having two children, can keep anyone from not looking, but there has to be a reason that you are even thinking about this..you didn't say that you were in love with your spouse..are you? sounds like you are unhappy..or why else would you concerner falling in love with someone else..if you fall in love with someone else, or course you are not happy with your marriage..blessings
2006-10-15 14:03:04
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answered by connie l 2
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of course you can fall in love with two kids and being married it's not ur fault! But as long as you guys don't go out..your fine.
2006-10-15 13:58:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Absolutely, I totally believe in love at first sight, but make sure its love and not lust before you take it any further, you'll be hurting many lives if you don't.
2006-10-15 14:12:25
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answered by ohsouncertain 1
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Yes definetely.But if that person is not living with her /his partner.If you do it when the above condition satisfies then you are the greatest.If you do it without satisfying the above condition then you are the cheapest.
2006-10-15 14:08:28
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answered by DeadPool 3
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