I have a friend, she was suposse to me my best friend, and recently I took my male-friend to her house to fix her computer, that day, everything was ok. they got along really well, next day, I couldnt go to her house becasue I had classes. He went there by himself and now it've been 1 week and it seems they that they are going out, but before I introduced him to her. He wanted to go out with me and always used to tell how much he loves me and cares about me. I never wanted anything with him, but now seems that they are hiding something from me. My "best friend" and he, the guy that "liked" me. Is that alright, since I never wanted anything with him. Is that ok? is it ok if they are hiding something from me?...
2006-10-15 06:47:07 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you said it your self, you did not want to be involved with him like that, so whats the problem?? you should be happy that they like each other. besides did you expect him to keep holding out for you? if so, you were being naive. let it go.
2006-10-15 06:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sweetheart it's not OK for friends to be disloyal.
He had no business going over to her house the very next day without you, or without you knowing about it.
You said "It SEEMS that they are going out". Be sure that you are right in your suspicions. If it turns out that you are, then you will know that your "Best Friend" only looks after herself, & your male-friend is not a very good one for you either.
I am so sorry, it's very sad for you to lose two "friends". But now you can go ahead & make some new ones. Hopefully you can find someone who is worthy of the faith that you put in them.
Here's a sympathetic *hug* . Hope you feel better soon.
2006-10-15 06:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound like they are hiding something from u maybe they do like each other and u should be a good friedn by not letting it bother u becuz u had your chance to go out with him and then u passed it up
2006-10-15 06:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't care to be with this boy, it's alright, but, I certainly would question my friendship with this girl. I sure would not want to be friends with someone that would do that to me. I don't question you not caring about her being with him as much as I question the sincerity of your friend.
2006-10-15 06:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't want him to start with and you want to be friends with them both... I would let them both know that you are OK with them having a relationship... and that if they are concerned that it's going to bother you... let them know that it doesn't... you had your chance to be with your guy friend and didn't move on it.. so let him be happy with your girl friend... I hope this helps...
2006-10-15 06:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're more than simply "confused'
You "never wanted anything to do with him" ....Keep it that way!
If they like each other, so what? YOU were the one who never appreaciated HIM! And now he has someone who does!
2006-10-15 06:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is, do you care? Do you like him now that he doesn't like you anymore?
2006-10-15 06:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋