im 13 and i have never had a bf.... all my friends have em ... and this past summer i have been convinced there is something wrong wit me like.... im not that perdy... or sumtin .... and im a really nice person... and my question is am i pretty ... i mean really .... and what would you advise me to do... and i really want ur comments .... it would make me feel better if guys answered ... but grls can too....
here are some pics:
http://photo.xanga.com/sarahA4919/c48e178840859/photo.html
http://photo.xanga.com/sarahA4919/c48e178840859/photo.html
and my daddy helps coach the high shcool soccer team and most of the players tell him they want to go out wit me but they wont cause im not in hs yet( i will be next yr.) and ppl are always tellin me im perdy and all that but i really dont believe em.. and well HELP
2006-10-15 06:26:43 · 15 answers · asked by statefrogy_05 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
and btw im the girl in the brown shirt
2006-10-15 06:39:26 · update #1
and i dunno what yall are thinkin about ma title ... but it makes me feel better when guys tell me
2006-10-15 07:31:18 · update #2
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2006-10-21 17:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, I'm not a guy. But you are pretty.
You're 13! Lots of girls don't have a boyfriend until they reach high school. A friend of mine didn't have her first boyfriend until she was almost 17 - and she's beautiful. Sometimes, it's really good to wait and not be so eager for the rest of your life. It will happen - you're only 13. You need to be concentrating on your schoolwork and grades right now, not having a boyfriend.
You are pretty. Don't ever not believe that.
I think it's really good that the boys in the high school are waiting until you reach high school to date you. It shows respect for you and your dad.
You deserve to have a childhood. Don't worry about boys for a couple more years. Have them as friends, just friends, and slowly move up to having a boyfriend. Make sure the boy respects you and cherishes you before you start dating - you'll be able to trust him more, and trust is very important.
Don't worry so much about your looks. You are pretty. I promise.
2006-10-15 07:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about a thing. You're a doll. My eleven year old daughter is going through the same thing. Every normal girl goes through it. Some day you'll be helping your daughter go through it. Relax and wait. Your time will come.
2006-10-15 06:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure. that's not consistently with regard to the appearance, yet on occasion its what the guy interior extremely is. different adult men do in comparison to a female buddy that's enormously yet whilst it includes the interior she's propose or undesirable. For me, whether a guy isn't that stable finding, yet whilst he's stable in the interior, i could settle for being that individual's female buddy.
2016-10-16 05:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by wysong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why you're so worried...
You're quite pretty but once you have a bf, it's like bye bye childhood. I don't know about you but I didn't like it and I want my childhood back! Also, after you have a bf, you can't refuse to 'go out' with someone because you're 'not allowed' as I found out!
Enjoy it while you can!
2006-10-15 07:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your too young for a bf. I would concentrate more your education, theirs going to be alots of boys in your life and believe me you'll have time for everything, but for now concentrate in school. You sound like a smart girl to me.I think all girls are pretty they just need to look good and have positive attitude, and be self confident.
2006-10-15 06:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Liana 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i think ur very pretty. but u shouldnt rush to get a boyfriend. i did...and i found out he wasnt a virgin and dumped him. then he began spreading rumors that i was a lesbian just because i am a virgin and because i dumped him. i wouldnt have minded if he wasnt a virgin is he was in like...the 11 grade.....but he wasnt.....we are in 7. so dont get a boyfriend right away. it will result in heartbreak. wait until YOU want one because YOU want one, not because ur friends have one. u should wait until you are ready to love somebody and wait until you are ready to commit to a steady realtionship. im not sayin to not go on dates....goin on dates is diffrnt than havin a boyfriend. goin on a date is just seeing what is out there. it is not goin steady, like what you are talkin bout. u should start goin on dates....dont start with a steady relationship until u really know the guy and u see whats out there. enjoy ur younger years....like me!
2006-10-15 08:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont worry bout it, i mean ur pretty, he'll come 2 u one day, like im in high school and i dont have a bf, i really couldnt care... u shouldnt either
2006-10-15 12:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by flee1906 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your only 13, and you are still calling your dad, "Daddy!" like a two year old. You shouldn't have a bf until you are 15 or 16. Get your mind on school. b/c apparently you aren't very bright.. wit, isn't a word...if guys only answered?? WTF?? Guys wouldnt have bf unless they were gay, and if they were.. then that would be like a girl answering... are you a total dumbass, or are you?
2006-10-15 07:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by coca_cola_froggy 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
your not ugly well both of you arent ugly yall are both preety and silly by looking at your other pics which one are you?
i would go out with you IF I WAS A GUY!!!
2006-10-15 06:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by amanda[ILY!] 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's ok im near your age and i've never had a boyfriend.
2006-10-15 06:49:20 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋