my best friend just wastes her time talking to her boyfriend and laying things off until the last minute!!!!!!!!
2006-10-15 06:02:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am a little bit confused here, you say she hangs out with "HER" boyfriend too much.......Now I do not mean to sound like a hater or anything like that but, this statement in it's self sounds a little weird because most couples want to hang out with each other, especially if it's in the beginning of the relationship, they are all goo, goo, gah, gah over each other, and even though it may be kind of old some people are just like that, I have been with my guy for over 7 years and it may be hard to believe to some but, we are still in love with each other, Now I had a friend that I use to hang out with and it seemed like she never would get it when my guy would come over......Now we would be hanging out together like for a few hours or whatever, and then when my guy would get there, instead of taking her leave, as most would, she would lay across my bed and stay there.
That is not the case hear is it? I mean you are missing your girl I know but, what ever you do don't try to make her choose between the two of you okay, just give the relationship some time to cool down a little okay because when you are young the attention span is short, she will need some air from him soon okay, and you just be there for her when she is ready to go the mall or or whatever okay?
Good Luck she will be okay..................
2006-10-15 06:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult when your best friend doesn't have as much time for you as she did before. You might try to get your friend to agree to spend a certain amount of time with you, like if you usually talk a couple times a day maybe she could agree to talk at least once a day. You can ask her kindly to give you more advance notice instead of putting things off until the last minute.
Most importantly, now that your friend has a boyfriend she will take some of the time she used to spend with you and spend it with her boyfriend. There is nothing wrong with that. You will have to be patient with her. Her boyfriend is as important to her as you are. Keep that in mind when you talk with her.
Good luck.
2006-10-15 06:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lovely 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Its"???
Anyway, hopefully you are not a little jealous. But if it helps, I had to walk away from a friendship because a dear friend continued this weird, cyclic relationship with a loser/abuser. I was constantly there for her, back and forth, up and down. They would break up and go back together. I would encourage her to lose him and she KNEW that is what she needed to do. I just got tired of riding someone else's emotional roller coaster.
2006-10-15 06:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by mickeyg1958 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey thanx for callin me an it by the way I have not talked to him for like two days and you have been at my house hanging out. It's not like you never get hang out with your friends. Peace out.
2006-10-15 06:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by megstar0430 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate it when she does that kind of stuff!! Then she breaks up with him and complains about how "No one likes her" and all of her friends don't wanna be around her. She tries to make all of her friends that has a BF feel sorry for her. but It's her fault that she broke up with him!!
2006-10-15 06:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she has just got with him, let her settle down, its all exciting in the beggining of a relationship :o)
2006-10-15 06:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it only annoys me when i dont have a boy friend myself
2006-10-15 06:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no because my bestfriend is my boyfriend
2006-10-15 06:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's boyfriend? this is your best friend?
How bizarre.
2006-10-15 06:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋