I am in a serious relationship with a bloke but recently iv been wondering wot it wud be like to get wit a girl and am really startin 2 like the idea n maybe even asking my bloke 2 join in but can ne 1 tell me wot its like and how i go about findin a girl who wud be interested
2006-10-15 05:52:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
sexual curiosity is fine- and acting them out is a great thing. I mean how are you to know if you like women until you try it. go ahead have some fun. I wouldnt tell your man anything, and definently dont get him involved until you are totally comfortable with it.
The law of averages suggests that you need to try/do something at least 3 times to get an accurate result. I used that one all the time to sleep with women when i was married- it worked a treat...
Come and join us- its lovely on this side....
2006-10-15 15:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are plenty of girls who would consider this an honor and a delight. How you find them is a little tricky, but I suspect there are places you hang out where such ladies are available. When I lived in San Francisco, there were always women (including myself) who hung around with gay men sometimes, and who were generally referred to as "*** hags." We were basically fond of having "brother/sister" (or sometimes sister/sister) relationships with the gay men, and there were always bisexual men around to provide the glue to hold a group together. We had a lot of fun until the AIDS epidemic started making everyone paranoid. Now I suppose your first "date" would have to be with the testing facility to find out whether it was safe.
By the way, I have noticed that in Santa Cruz, which is a comparatively small town but includes a goodly share of tourists, bars are not so much gay vs. straight, but straight or gay or bi. That is, there are several places which encourage bisexuals with "all are welcome" attitudes and advertisements.
2006-10-15 13:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think if everyone is honest we have all thought what it would be like to have sex with the same sex, but for most of us that's were it stays just thinking about it,
Make sure you are 100% before you start having threesomes Ive heard stories that have wreaked good solid relationships due to jealousy etc..
Best of Luck on your decision x
2006-10-15 12:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by julie knows 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would advise you to try a bisexual site or chat room. Become friends with someone in ur area. Then try it but I would not advise telling your BF until you are comfortable within yourself to do so. They do not understand. Trying a threesome may open something you may not be ready to deal with, so be careful on that part.
2006-10-15 13:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by michellej 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hang on Just ine, she never said she was a Lesbian!
She said she wanted to try it with a girl, and then getting a guy involved too.
Maybe she's bisexual, or maybe she might only do it once, does that make her a lesbian for the rest of her life?
Maybe your the moron for not reading her question and being too quick to jump in with the abuse.
2006-10-15 13:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You may just want to experiment and see what being with a woman would be like, dosn't mean your lesbian. I'm pretty sure you could find a willing lesbian to kiss you or even go further.
2006-10-16 17:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by deadgirll5224 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could try a bisexual site such as bisexual.com where you can place your profile and a personal ad for the type fo girl you want to meet.
It worked well for the men I wanted to meet.
2006-10-15 13:14:08 · answer #7 · answered by mildly mad 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im gay and i think being wiv a woman is amazing cos they know how u feel wot u like and kno exactly wot they r doin. go to any local gay nite club or gay chat room. www.gaydargirls.com
2006-10-15 12:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by scaryfaerie13 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You couldn't pay me all the money in the world to be with a man...you need to find yourself a ho....a straight ho who doesn't mind doing both.
2006-10-15 16:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All i can say it is a different experience for each individual...try it, no one in this world could explain to you how it will feel for you...good luck
2006-10-15 13:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by West Virginia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋