I mean, if you want to date a vulgar, abusive, unfaithful jerk, go right ahead. That's your right to do that. But don't think that a man who doesn't have those qualities is "boring" or "too nice".
2006-10-15 05:43:46 · 12 answers · asked by mike_answ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i love good guys...though they are hard to find...
jerks are everywhere, thats why they are dominant...
2006-10-15 05:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not that women hate good guys, it could be a number of reasons. Maybe a woman has been hurt before and thinks that all men are the same, she might have self-esteem issues that make her choose all the wrong men. Just a little advice, my hubby is a wonderful GOOD man but when I met him he did one thing that the others didn't, he played a little hard to get. I think that most women like to be challenged and like the hunt (just as men do) and if you throw yourself and/or are always available for the woman in the beginning, she'll lose interest. Let the woman "hunt" for a bit and that might work. Hope this helps!
2006-10-15 05:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by acehernandez2006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Really am not sure, i think sometimes its a subconscious thing because somewhere inside we think that perhaps we can change them into better people, so stupid. Tis like the more problems they have the more we try to "work" on them. I mean its ridiculous
"yeah well he is unemployed, has a drug/alcohol problem, he had a bad childhood you know, in trouble with the law, etc. etc. BUT somewhere deep inside he's a good person" its such crap !!
I know its impossible to change anyone (been there done that)
As for hatred for good guys I can only speak for myself I dont hate them (dont hate anyone really) its more about if you got a guy thats got his **** together you dont have anything to fix so there fore its only you and if you dont think you are good enough or deserve a nice guy (lack of confidence on our part) well I suppose women might then have to look at their own issues. So I suppose I am saying that the women that knock back the good guys need to work on themselves & not perpetually try to change some ******** that doesnt want to change.(very conceited of us really to even think we can, or maybe just born carers)
Don't loose heart somewhere out there is a well adjusted person for you. take care.
PS This is only my thoughts sorry if they are of no help to you.
2006-10-15 13:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most women don't know a good man if it slapped her in the face. Most women have the right man and can't treat him right for nothing, now he is happy with someone else and you still want him back. A good man is hard to find, but jerks are forever...
2006-10-15 09:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by trugyrl4u2002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The abusive men make things bad for the rest of them.
2006-10-15 06:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right, but because of the loosers that we interact with or have come in contact with you "good" guys have to suffer, and If she's a good one like I am then it's worth the fight ;).
2006-10-15 05:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by karessakincaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman are always looking for GOOD guys and that is why they eventually end up treating them badly or hate them because they all start out being GOOD and then become jerks
2006-10-15 05:57:17 · answer #7 · answered by christina s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You obviously are looking in the wrong place for a real women. I do love my honest,caring ,good guy husband.
2006-10-15 05:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to be insanely nice all the time... poke a little fun, be confident, just imagine if girls where extremely nice all the time... no fun right? It completely kills the spontaniousness of it all.
2006-10-15 05:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by Often times. 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Listen and they will come! are you going to chase after her?some time ethnicity plays a big role.
2006-10-15 05:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋