My Ex-fiance and I may get back together,however,It seems like he still wants to live a lifestyle as open relationships to other people,I have moderated sexual feeling for his younger brother,and slight sensual feelings for his older brother,Chris just does not want a committed relationship with just him and I alone,originally that all I really wanted from him,but he says that I was boring,and too much on the white picket fence kind of life?I wonder If it would be worth getting over feelings for his brothers and one of there Ex-girlfriends,or should I just pursuit regardless of how my fiance would react?
2006-10-15 05:28:44 · 8 answers · asked by LeAngel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont do anything you dont want to do!!!!
2006-10-15 05:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and him both need to get a life. You should never get with his brother no matter what. You need to break up with him because you two don't have a relationship. He doesn't want anything with you so why are you wasting your time with him. Go out and get someone else that will be in a committed relationship with you because all your doing is wasting precious time right now, and your letting yourself be disrespected by this man. Don't sleep with his brothers because it will be the biggest mistake you can make.
2006-10-15 05:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds more like revenge on your part than the desire for an actual open relationship.
My wife and I are swingers and occasionally see people solo, and one big rule we have is "no coworkers, no ex's, and no family - no matter how distantly related."
The situation you are describing can end-up no way but badly. If you want commitment, and he doesn't, than you should just part friends and move-on. Then you both have a chance of finding what you are looking for and there will not be any more hurt or drama than has already occured.
2006-10-15 16:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introducing a relationship to polygamy is fraught with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundamental principles of the relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for their relationship. However, both people have to be brought into it strongly and both people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality.
2006-10-22 20:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say stay away from ex fiance as well as his brothers. Go find a real man that isn't afraid of commitment, there are a lot out there.
2006-10-15 05:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 13:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have a dog if yes then its complete
2006-10-15 05:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by aldo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIANCE?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????neither of you are ready to be engaged let alone married ..grow up get all your wild side out and then talk about possibly being engaged ..let alone married
2006-10-15 05:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Alli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋