mmkay, so usually i'm nice, and sweet. But this week, i wasn't very nice, and i cant tell you why. I have barely any friends, and my best friend and i havent been getting along very well. I'm not jealous, but i want people to talk to me, which they dont, and i want more friends, and i have tried being nice, and sweet, but i'm quiet, and i dont know what to do, or why i decided to be mean this week, i sorta feel bad, i mean i REALLY feel bad, but my best friend doesnt help the situation either for example, Friday Night she wanted me to go to the ballgame with her, i said no, but it wasnt a surprise to her seeing as i had been saying no all week, and then she found out that hr dad wouldnt let her go unless she had a friend to go with, but i still said no. The reason i said no was because the last four times we went, she ignored me, and didnt talk to me, which hurt my feelings. I told her that, but she kept calling ME selfish, but in the end she got to go to th game, but i ended up apolog
2006-10-15 05:24:10 · 7 answers · asked by a 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you ended up apologising?!
what for honey??
you dont want to be ignored when you go out with her, i wouldnt want to be either, think you need to find another "best friend" she aint exactly filling her role is she!!
2006-10-15 05:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're saying that you are a mean person, find out where it is coming from. According to your story, you sound like a nice girl anyway. Your friend is not even a friend to you at all. She is using you and she does not value your friendship. I think the main reason why that you think you are mean is because of the fact the your so-called friend is using you. Find friends who will appreciate your friendship and enjoy your company as well. Talk to your friend and tell it like it is. Be open and honest. You will get through this. You shouldn't even have to apologize because you did NOTHING wrong!! I hope my advice will help you heal your wounds. Good luck.
2006-10-15 13:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find where your negative attitude is coming from . Sometime even when we feel down going anyway may help. Try being less shy and find thing to talk about that is of interest to the people your with .By saying no and being depressed only pushes people away because it puts them in a depress mood.
2006-10-15 12:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by martha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well without knowing the whole story like y u cant tell us y u decided to b mean , cant really give u wat ur looking for! But.....u seem like u might really b a nice gurl and ur friend sounds to me like she is just using u anyway , talk with sum other ppl make new friends theres a whole world out there , and u couldve found part of it at the game , just go talk to ppl dont b bashfull , and dont worry about wat others think just b urself , i know it looks like ur world is turned upside down right now but hang in there , its always darkest b4 the dawn! Ur gonna b just fine , trust me !!
2006-10-15 12:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by Tim P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you have some seemingly major problems now dont you?
Perhaps you'll work it all out once you get past puberty.
2006-10-15 12:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sing aloud
2006-10-15 12:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by Evar-ceako Onyeanusi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow........
2006-10-15 12:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋