I really like him and he says that he feels the same, ive never been involved in anything like this and i really dont know what to do so any advice would be welcomed...
2006-10-15 05:16:55 · 16 answers · asked by ndr111111111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My sister was in the same situation a year ago, and although he just might be genuine, my sister came home crying and pregnant. So all he probably wants is your body. Best advice is be careful, men will tell you anything and everything to get what they want ie : take advantage of you. If he really likes you he will respect your wishes. Perhaps you should exchange a few letters first before you rush into anything or you may end up like my sister. Be careful and take care. H.
2006-10-17 13:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by harrylayne@btinternet.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely NO. This has happened to a number of single women I know, and has always ended in tears. The reality is far different from the expectation,please be warned. I suspect that there is a little voice telling you this, that is why you are asking the question-you like him but you are having the gnawing doubts! I feel you may be looking to have them wiped away with people's responses, but I trust you will be advised to leave it and see it for what it very probably is. I do wish you all the very best whatever you decide, but please take heed.HI THERE! I received your e-mail, but Iwas unable to reply to it-the link wouldn't work and after I tried a few times I was infomed that sender was blocked! Sorry about that. Thes e men are always very charming. One of my friends brought him over and they married. He lived off her, very convincing why he could not work. Then he cheated, she challenged and he beat her up.Another similar story, came over,then disappeared after stealing from her. I know they seem lovely, but different culture and they know how to charm English women. It is a recognised way of them getting a visa.Of course there is always the exception.But very rare. So many press stories of heartache. Please be wary as I am worried about you. Ask him to come here for a week, I bet he will have a good reason not to or ask you to lend him the money. I am so sorry to go on like this, but I'm afraid you will find I am right. You deserve a man you can trust, and I do hope you find him before this man can hurt you. I will be thinking of you.
2006-10-15 05:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by jonquilblack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.... how long have you known him?? You do need to be careful. there are a lot of people who seem nice but have the wrong intentions.
Why dont you have him come over to your home this year, and get to know him a little better and then he can meet your family and you can find out all about him, then if all goes well you could go in the summer. that way your family have met him and you can find out info on him, like where you would be staying, the phone number and such. it is always better to be safe than sorry... good luck!
2006-10-15 05:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yoy might as well empty your bank account now and apply for his visa asap.
Dont let this fella take you for a ride, once he has got what he is after he'll dump you like a hot potato.
He has probably told every girl he met during the summer months the same thing, bet he would'nt be so bloody smug if a coach load of love sick beauties descended on his home town all at once, my bet is he'd shite in his very badly made snide Armani jeans!
2006-10-15 05:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Turkish guy probably is interested in you providing a VISA for his Passport, so that he is legally able to enter the United States of America or the United Kingdom.
Be Cautious and Good Luck !
2006-10-15 06:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by embassydiplomat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but If I were you, I well stay home and not go. I heard that Turkish men were kinda creepy. Not just Turkish! Alot of mean men are out there!
2006-10-15 05:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don;'t go, you read so much bad press about things like this. If he wants to see you as badly as he says he does, let him come and see you. Be very cautious and don't let a holiday romance cloud your sense of logic. If this man is genuine he will save up his pennies and come here to see you. If he does come, take things very slowly and take advice from friends and loved ones.
Good luck
2006-10-15 05:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sweet. If you got on well with him then make plans to go over and meet with him and spend time together. Do you have no plans for christmas or family and friends to spend special time with? if you do - wont they miss you??maybe you dont celebrate christmas. why not plan to go over for a week in november - the likes of "side" in turkey will still be quite nice then!
then if everything goes hunky dory make plans to meet for xmas - either over there in Turkey OR invite him over to stay with you...?
what do you think.....? Aww I hope it all goes well for you !! :O) Colette x
2006-10-15 05:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by colette pippa d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful. I have a friend out there she is an estate agent....she took her mum out to a restaurant.. the mum was chatted up by a l waiter of 20!! if they know your British your a target...
2006-10-15 06:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd steer well clear of him, he'll only be after one thing and that's a visa. If he likes you that much he'd find the money to come over here to see you.
2006-10-15 05:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jazzybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋