They met at her work place while she was at work and even when I told her that he was married, they continued an affair on and off and everytime is On, he takes money out of the household bills to go out, to move out with her and left me with the whole bills. My credit card payments and my credit has been ruined. We were kicked out of a rental house already for not paying on time. She works in a franchised cash advance where he borrows money from her to support their escapades.
The other girlfriend is a pharmacist and she favored him with a gift card that he was not entitled to get and used my phone number (at home) from the prescription that he placed there and called him at our house.
2006-10-15 05:15:36 · 15 answers · asked by Ineedtoknow67 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Personal Finance
It sounds like you have a history of concentrating on everything except what really matters.
Get a divorce and get on with your life.
I doubt either of their employers put a gun to their head and forced them to have an affair.
2006-10-15 06:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can sue anyone. FOr any reason. Will you win? mmmm maybe not. They are consenting adults (if they are adults) and should be acountable for their actions. If it wasnt at work it would ve happened somewhere else, perhaps. I know how hurt you feel, and perhaps revengeful , but the best thing u can do is either work things out with him, or cut him out of ur life. Some people make mistakes...like sleeping with one women a few times and then getting back on track. Others fall out completely and its obvious they didnt give a **** about hurting you. You gotta be the judge in this one.
2006-10-15 05:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by pickemeeeeeeeeeeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only lawyer you need to talk to is a divorce lawyer - RIGHT NOW!! He/she can advise you on how to legally separate your husband's debts from your own. Suing the employer is futile and would take money that you (probably) don't have. It isn't the employer's fault. Your husband has chosen to do these things. Put the blame where it belongs. And if you continue to stay with him, YOU will be the facilitator.
Talk to that divorce attorney NOW!
2006-10-15 05:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by dreamweaver.629ok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know cause I ain't a lawyer. But I think you need stability and a financial plan to keep afloat in this troubling time. No matter what you decide about hubby, you should read The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey. www.daveramsey.com
Good Luck
2006-10-15 05:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your primary concern should not be whether or not you can sue someone. You should file for divorce and find someone who is actually interested in being a good husband. Don't waste your time or energy on revenge - it won't actually make you happier and is not productive. Instead focus on making a fresh start.
2006-10-15 05:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by Natasha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
facebook did not damage relationship.. Your husband dozing with yet another woman ruined the relationship.. I somewhat have many acquaintances on facebook, some from HS some from the present... it is a astonishing thanks to shop in contact.. What you do after is thoroughly as a lot as you.. do not positioned the blame on something that in no way led for your divorce.. positioned the blame the position it belongs... on the single which cheated on you.
2016-12-04 20:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by eichelberger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to move on I think and forget about suing or anything else. Be happy that you have a way out of a bad relationship.
2006-10-15 05:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your quarrel is with your husband, not his girlfriend's employer. He's the one who's responsible for this mess. You can sue him for divorce if that's what you feel is best - and it sounds like it would be, from what you say.
Good luck.
2006-10-15 11:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by Judy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suing for something like that would be trashy.
Show a little more class and take him on Jerry Springer instead.
2006-10-15 15:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pack up and run like heck~! Forget the money, your sanity is more important. Next you need to repair your credit history.
2006-10-15 05:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋