2006-10-15 04:50:09 · 10 answers · asked by A W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we don't communicate as much these days, my feelings are fragile with him these days, I don't believe he is thinking of leaving.. but I would love to have some great ideas I could do or use to surprise him.
2006-10-15 04:54:12 · update #1
we just seem distant... we are parents also of a 17 month old... and i would love to be able to do something here at home to let him know how much he means to me
2006-10-15 04:56:07 · update #2
It is called an inside date.....You rent a good movie when you go out to run errands you pick up his favorite beverage and snack foods. Then you go home and while baby naps in the middle of the day you take a bath and dress up a little nicer than normal and about thirty minutes before the baby goes down for the night order out dinner and have it delivered. The two fo you have a nice dinner and a movie together. It sounds like with the hectic schedules you guys are just out of tune. You need some time together to bring it all rushing back. What ever you don't give up give it time!!!
~Good Luck ~
2006-10-15 14:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in relationships. Issues can cause a gap between two people. No one knowing how it started and even more at a loss on how to bridge it. On or the other being afraid to try in fear of rejection or making it worse.
I say start from the beginning. Start dating again. Do the things, go to the places you used to. When you feel you are closer than other times. Make a mental note of what your doing at that time. So you can keep doing it.
I always suggest talking or counseling first. Yet sometimes talking especially if your already frustrated can make things worse. Take your time, baby steps. This gap didn't grow over night and can't be fixed that quickly either. Good luck
2006-10-15 05:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree that communication is the key also. If there is none then you will grow farther and farther apart. Start with this first even if he acts like he doesn't want to. You need tp be persistant and keep pushing with this. Don't give up hope yet. You have to atleast try so in the end you can always know you did the best you could and not have any regrets.
2006-10-15 04:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We had the same problem. A child really changes your relationship. We took a family vacation with baby to a cottage. and then we left baby with grandparents for the weekend and we had a romantic get away at the same cottage. Our relationship is much better so is the sex.
2006-10-15 04:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by BunnyRabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about ditching the computer and spending some time together? date him again, go to places together try something new.pay him some attention, we all know hoe mardy men can get if they think they are not loved. oh but not too much he might think you are covering for having an affair!!
2006-10-15 04:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go away for a short getaway to a B&B. Or better year take a real vacation to Spain.
2006-10-15 04:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in that boat too. I guess time will do it for us one way or the other.
2006-10-15 04:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by super stud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slide to the left on the couch........
2006-10-15 04:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how about talking to each other
2006-10-15 04:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMMUNICATION
2006-10-15 04:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋