I still love her and slept with her this weekend. She asked if I would be her new man birthday present which startled me. I love her and would do almost anything to win her heart again, but I'm not sure how I feel about that....She said she still love me and will never love another woman the way she love me...what should I do?
2006-10-15 04:48:10 · 11 answers · asked by Vanity 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's not love if she is willing to put you in a situation that makes you fell uncomfortable. If you love her that much you should give her room to love you back the way you want to be loved. If I were you I would not do anything of the sort. I mean just in this case if that is what your into but if it is only going to hurt you then you should stay away! BE STRONG!
2006-10-17 05:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass. It takes a pretty selfish person to ask such a thing. If she was with another woman and asked you to be third in the relationship, how would you feel about it? That she's with a man is not relevant - bisexual ppl are as monogamous (or not) as any other orientation. You're in love with someone who is never going to put you first. That sucks and you deserve much better!
2006-10-15 12:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by Alex62 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to have the best of both worlds. If you are willing to settle for that, go ahead and settle for it. If you don't want to be a "side dish" then move on.
2006-10-15 11:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oooo a 3 some.... Interesting... Very Interesting...
2006-10-15 12:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Scott 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you so much then why the hell did she go back to her ex? There's something missing here?
2006-10-15 11:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your a lesbian right? Why even consider having a 3some with a man? She is using you... i suggest you move on to someone who cares about YOU.....
2006-10-15 12:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by sexylilles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a girl who loves you and wants to be with you, not someone who wants to keep you on the side.
2006-10-15 15:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing you. You shouldn't ever have to be second fiddle if you are truly loved. Move on.
2006-10-15 11:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by Taffy Saltwater 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what should you do? well for starters , go back to school. Your english is terrible. Oh and by the way.... sleep with her man, it will do you some good.
2006-10-15 16:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it she is only using you!
2006-10-15 11:52:24 · answer #10 · answered by Cherry Berry 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋