I am married with a 3 years old daughter. Few weeks ago, during a party with with friends, I kissed a girl, I liked it. Since then, I can't stop thinking about it, I feel like I need to have sex now with a woman. If that ever happened to you, please share with me what happened and what you felt after. Thanks.
2006-10-15 04:35:35 · 17 answers · asked by Candie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nope well not yet anyway. yes i kissed a girl but we were joking around but it had no after effect sorry
2006-10-15 04:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, I know that you are married with child and you say you were partying with friends....how were you able to kiss a GIRL? Were there children at your ADULT fuction? Was the child as young as your daughter?
....Wow!...It does not really matter because you did say that she was a girl....
...Get a grip! Forget about being married for a minute. Would you like to have a grown *** man kissing your daughter in the mouth! That's not right and that's not fair to the child.
It is so easy to manipulate and confuse a child. You could truly damage a child with that behavior. You are wrong! You have taken advantage of her and you owe her an apology.
Now what is she to do the next time she see's you? Run for dear life becuase she is scared shitless or except this as normal behavior and do it not only to you but to every adult male she encouters? Next there will be sex! You are so very wrong for what you have done. Please refrain from such actions.
If you simply enjoyed the excitment of it all have your wife do a little role playing for you...or some other consenting adult!
There are all kinds of things that you can do to spark up your sex life...try an adult store, escort service or personal ads.
Don't make this little girl keep your secret...and if she is a teenager...let her at least be 18ys of age. Even an 18yr old would be at a disadvantage dating you as a married man with a child. It's not balanced. Even your most mature 18yr old would not be able to handle such a relationship, but at least you would not be looking at any jail time, right?
Are you male or female?....doesn't matter same rules apply!
2006-10-15 12:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by californian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be curiousity, could be the thrill of doing something you may have been taught was wrong or against society, you could be Bi, you could be gay. I dont suggest running out and having sex with someone(man or woman) just cause a kiss was good. Besides you are married and it would be cheating, and how would you feel if your spouse did the same to you or if he found out. And an affiair is always a good reason for Divorce and Custody battles, was teh kiss THAT good.. and how about the effects it will have on your kid? . Remember you have to wake up and answer to yourself eventually.
I had an affiar years ago, it ended in divorce, but now I look back and realize the marriage was over before the affiar happened. Otherwise, I wouldnt have cheated. I dont recommend it
2006-10-15 11:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by grapelady911 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip you are married with a 3 year old daughter...... what you are feeling is only lust. You wanna sacrifice all the good things you have got then go ahead. But think of that little girl of yours when daddy gets thrown out the house. What sort of image is she gonna have about you as she grows up?
2006-10-15 11:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by lollipoppett2005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married why did you kiss a girl. And was it a girl or a women? Are you ready to loose your marriage and possibly your daughter? You had better think of the consequences before you do something you might regret for the rest of your life.
2006-10-15 11:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feel that at this time in your life it is more important to concentrate on being a mother than on experimenting. I also had such thoughts in college, but now that i am a mother i would never do something that might affect my daughter's childhood in a negative way. If later when she is grown you still feel this way, you can handle the situation then. The thing you have to ask yourself is, "is it truly worth risking my daughters stability for momentary pleasures or experimentation's?"
2006-10-15 11:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you feel the need to experiment on the other side. I say to go for it. I doubt that you are a full lesbian but you may be as it is called Bi-Sexual. Meaning a healthy interest in both sexes. Definitly talk to your partner about this. He may not be comfortable with you experimenting with this new sexual urge of yours or he may encourage it. But keep it from family asi t is no concern of theirs. I wish you the best and if you want to talk more about this I am available through email. Kinda been there done that.
2006-10-15 11:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by mabluu_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not say the age of this girl you kissed. if it is a
1. "girl" then you are a pedophile in the making and you need to see a professional quick to stop you from doing something terrable.
2. if the girl was a "teenager" then your just a dirty old man.
3. if the girl is a "woman"...then refer to number 2. and then make sure you keep your lips to yourself in the future... if you can
oh, I almost forgot to answer your question....the answer is never.
2006-10-15 11:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by eyepopping hideous female troll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there are alot of girls out there that have thought about this, and if this is something that you want to do, first and foremost you need to talk it over with your husband. and as I'm sure you already know he might want to participate. if you don't want him involved then you may have a problem. but if you are willing to at least let him watch, then go for it. just make sure your kid is not in the home at the time. have fun !!
2006-10-15 11:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u nutts....Your married..Whatever happen to your marriage vows.It doesn't matter if it is a girl or guy u are still going to hurt your husband..Stop and think about what u are doing.Plus what about your daughter.I don't think she would like seeing her daddy move out cause of your stupid actions.It not worth it...Get it out of your mind girlfriend...
2006-10-15 11:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has never happened to me but i feel wha you are saying. You should try not to think about the other women. I f you need sex do it to you wife.
2006-10-15 11:40:56 · answer #11 · answered by ty_wanted@yahoo.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋