2006-10-15 04:33:13 · 27 answers · asked by gharman2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
be patient and wait dont rush him into loving u u cant do that anyway he loves you. he said it once dont push it
2006-10-15 06:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by G.nelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he doesn't tell you he loves you all the time doesn't mean that he doesn't love you at all. Don't try and make him tell you he loves you more because if you do he's really going to stop saying it a lot more. You will give him the impression that you are insecure and not that confident about yourself and the relationship. Some guys don't say it all the time, and some do. The only thing that matters is how he treats you. If he treats you the way you want to be treated in a relationship right now then that's what matters the most. His actions should tell you he loves you, not his words because anybody can say " I love you" and never mean it.
2006-10-15 11:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on - catch up here, hon. You don't "get" someone to tell you they love you. Is that really what you want?
No,. I don't think so.
Love comes from the heart and soul of a person directly towards another person. It knows no time frame, and force never works against it.
Calm yourself down and enjoy the wonders abounding all around you. When the time is right all things will change.
2006-10-15 11:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by mellow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two ways to approach this... he may not be a very verbally affectionate person and if he loves you he will show you that in his actions. You have to accept that about him. OR he may not be as far gone as you are and you need to give him time to develop those feelings. You can't trick someone into telling you they love you, and if you do... it won't be genuine.
2006-10-15 11:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by HECKLE97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try talking to him but this is something that has to come from his heart. If he is only telling you he loves you because its what you want to hear then he might as well not say anything. They are hollow words.
2006-10-15 11:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by paddymac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you need reassurance. Remember God loves you and tell yourself everyday that God loves you, you are very special and important to him, he died a horrible for you just for you, so you could go to heaven, for your sins, you are so important, you don,t need anyone to tell you how speical you are, just believe it.
Don,t worry about this boyfriend, tell him you love him and how special he is and i am sure he will return it, remember he also needs to feel loved and wanted, their are so many people walking around who do not feel loved spread a bit of happiness.
Maybe your parents did not tell you enough that you were loved and how special you were, and maybe you are looking for that reassurance. You are loved take care Denise.
2006-10-15 11:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is reckless; not reason.
Reason seeks a profit.
Love comes on strong,
consuming herself, unabashed.
Yet, in the midst of suffering,
Love proceeds like a millstone,
hard surfaced and straightforward.
Having died of self-interest,
she risks everything and asks for nothing.
Love gambles away every gift God bestows.
Without cause God gave us Being;
without cause, give it back again.
2006-10-15 11:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by raj the secret 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Appreciate every time he says it. And you to should think everytime before you say it-and mean every word. If he shows it by treating you with affection, and sez it sometimes why should he say it all the time? it would lose all meaning
2006-10-15 11:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if a man only says it now and again, without being pressurised to say it, then it means much more because he is saying it cos he feels it and not because he feels he should.
The more you try to make him say it, the less he will feel like saying it.
2006-10-15 11:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people have trouble expressing their love...especially when it comes to saying them 3 little words, if he's told you already then be thankful, at least you know that he does love you...he'll tell you in his own time, don't force him to say it, he will tell you when he's ready
2006-10-15 11:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you mite do things that makes him love you and feel really attracted to you which is y he mite say he loves you and other times you mite act a certain way or say something or even look a way that seems unattractive to him so he mite not love you at all and if you push him to say it he's gonna say it but not mean it
2006-10-15 11:37:36 · answer #11 · answered by dude 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋