I am fifteen and my boyfriend is the same age as me. The problem is whenever he is around he is ALWAYS hard. When we kiss we both feel uncomfortable and I don't know what to do or say to him. Any suggestions? Do you have the same problem?
2006-10-15 04:07:44 · 24 answers · asked by pink_musicgirl 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
its not his fault, his hormones are driving him crazy that is all, very normal......
2006-10-15 04:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's normal with a 15 year old. He can get an erection anytime. Research shows that a 15 year old has some kind of sexual thought every 17 seconds! This will get better in the next year or two.
In the meantime, tell him to masturbate before you go out on a date, so that he has less sexual tension; otherwise, his full attention will be on persuading you to give him hand relief oral sex, or going all the way. You may want to do those things of course - that's up to you. But it will be better if he takes care of it just before he leaves the house to go and meet you - then both of you can have a nice evening.
In any case, you don't have to DO anything about it when he gets hard. Tell him to wear loose clothes so it is less evident, and if you don't want to get him too excited, avoid touching that area even with your body when you kiss.
2006-10-15 14:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup... agree with other posters... that thing is hard from age 12 until age 32, pretty much all the time. At least that was how it went with me.
The presence of an attractive young female kissing you doesn't exactly make it soft, either.
Fortunately (or unfortunately -- I'm a father of daughters) you'll lose your "uncomfortable" feelings soon enough, and... sigh... oh well, yeah, you won't feel "uncomfortable" very much longer.
2006-10-15 11:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by geek49203 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncomfortable with him maybe another guy is better suited for you. He is a normal healthy 15y.o. boy and do not worry about it. When he is 50 he will wish for the good old days with you. So, take full advantage of it and enjoy.
2006-10-15 11:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by jzoop1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This, from a female:
You're both young, so be careful. There are consequences to succumbing to desires, and it can change the course of your life. But have compassion for him -- what he is experiencing is natural, and in about 15 years YOUR hormones are gonna be raging just like his are now. Trust me. ;)
2006-10-15 11:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just nature taking it's course as his hormones grow nothing to worry about..
but at 15 your both to young right now to act on it..wait atleast 2 years before you do anything.
2006-10-15 11:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by steve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age 15 he is hard with or without you
2006-10-15 11:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all unusual for a 15 year-old boy.
BTW, do your parents allow you to go out un-chaperoned? Not really appropriate. Your boyfirend's quite natural reaction is ample evidence of this.
2006-10-15 11:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Rusty Shackleford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is normal for a hormone crazed 15 year-old boy. Don't worry about it.
2006-10-15 11:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are asking the guys but from a girls stand point...all young guys are that this. It doesn't take much to get them excited. He just has to learn self control
2006-10-15 11:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by spunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal for his age.......you should be happy that he gets "hard" when being with you. That means you turn him on. Ask yourself what would it say if no boys ever got aroused when with you?
2006-10-15 11:13:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋