2006-10-15 04:06:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Go for it - just build up the courage to ask someone out. The worst that can possibly happen is that you will get told no, which will only hurt for a minute, until you move on and try asking someone else.
2006-10-15 04:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I never dared ask a girl out, and I didnt feel that I had anything to offer her if I did and she said yes, unless I got so drunk that i was falling over on her which doesnt help any either. I guess first thing you have to do is get a game plan, find a special thing you can do well that is fun and interesting. While you are doing this you will probably meet some people, guys or girls strength is in numbers. I had an extrovert for a roomate, he did all the work and I finally met a really nice girl thru one of his gf's, I thnk they set me up. You also gotta forget the bar or club scene, that is no place for shy people, although they will be drunk and looking to hook up.
2006-10-15 04:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough...I'm a shy and introverted woman (those 2 things don't always go hand in hand) and I know it's got to be more tough on the guys who are that way, because they are the ones that typically are supposed to be the agressors and make y 'the first move (toward a woman)...
It may take you more time to ask a woman out, as you aren't likely to walk up to her, say 'hi', and ask for her phone number or hand her yours...start small...if you see a woman that appeals to you make eye contact and smile...if she returns that (good sign) then go further and speak to her...even we shy types can run a conversation if we have to...
...after you've chatted a bit (and all you need to is ask questions and let her do most of the talking) you can decide if you'd like to get to know her better...if so, ask her to join you for coffee/soda/drinks somewhere...
It's not as scary as it sounds...if you're meeting women online prior to offline, then strike up online conversations...remember rejection is likely to occur sometimes, so don't take it personally because at that point the two of you probably hardly know each other (online or off) so just tell yourself it's okay if she isn't attracted to you, just as you are not attracted to every woman you see...
Go forth and date...
2006-10-15 05:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be so. Looking back, its a drawback. How abt this - imagine you as shy and introvert and other imagine ur confident and outgoing.
U could layout wat u mite do in several scenarios like asking a girl, meeting her and going out wif her. U'll soon see the pros in being the opposite u are now. So dun waste your chances, go try talking to her. Getting close to the girl you like and getting to know each other.
Dun waste your chance as it will never come again.
2006-10-15 04:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by iamghostofeternia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it to the girls you like, tell her WOULD YOU LIKE TO GO WITH ME TO HAVE SOME COFFEE OR SODA.? Just say it and that is the starting point Good luck if she says no, maybe the next one will yes yes, who cares there are a lot of girls in the world. and there is one for you
2006-10-15 05:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by pelancha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try online dating. That way, you can find compatible women who are ok with your being shy.
2006-10-15 04:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Double with a friend. If at the very least is meeting new people you have succeeded. If this is a true friend you are doing it with he/she won't hang you out to dry.
2006-10-15 04:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her allow to get date.
2006-10-15 05:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by Pitambri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look in the yellow pages under Escorts.
2006-10-15 04:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just do it. That´s how I did it. Think of it as an exercise, if it fails try again, you´ll get something.
2006-10-15 04:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by Sleepless 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋