Iv bin wiv my man for a year n we live together and i think hes always bin the same he says its not all about sex, we have a great relationship all in all just i cant c how hes not fussed but sex wiv me but likes the odd bit of soft porn wots that all about???
2006-10-15 03:46:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is a typical male. just t see his reaction u masturbate over porn and no give him sex all the time. and when he asks y u not giving him any u say "its not always about sex" My bf and i r the same. He does it to me to. From experience though, sex is better after a while. cos u got more energy and stuff and u can please and tease longer and when it comes to that all mighty orgasm,,, wasnt it just worth the wait.. and the anticipation?
2006-10-15 03:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by ca4btts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being a man i guess i can answer that.. After a man moves in with a woman the motivation to have sex does drop..its like when u buy a new car..for the first few months its great and u cant drive it enough.but then the novelty wears off.sorry but its a fact!!And as for the porn,he just likes the fantasic part of it.So the best thing u can do is make it more exciting for him,like surprise him one day when he gets home from work with a hot bath, the lights dimed with candles everywhere and wear some sexy underwear. men need a little adventure in theyre sex life so try roll play maybe.or go and buy a nurses outfit and play doctors... i promise it will work... so good luck.
2006-10-15 04:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like your man gets more excitement from soft porn...which dosent give you much credit...it seems like the visual side of sex...e.g watching porn is more of a turn on...but the actual engaging and taking part in the physical act, is not as exciting for him....if i were you i would have to have a serious talk with him...let him know how you feel, and go from there. Good Luck.
2006-10-15 03:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby of 11 years has never lost interest in sex he wears me out,I just want a bit of piece and quiet, you don't know how lucky you are!
2006-10-15 03:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
blimey....this probably isn't doing your self esteem much good!!!
don't you want a man who every time he looks at you he feels hot for you and burns with desire for you?
its not ALL about sex - but i think love and desire go together!
talk to him - ask him what the problem is , and if he don't admit there is one , are you just going to accept it?
thats the bit thats up to you - but you should not have to coax your man into wanting to have sex with you...
2006-10-15 06:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by chandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank yourself lucky that you have a lovely b/f. He obviously thinks more about you as a person than as a sex object.
2006-10-15 03:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not a real bloke perhaps you dont tease him???
2006-10-15 03:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by jdg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is,but just not with you.
2006-10-15 04:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by Darrell K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋