Any tips on how to get a man to open up and share his feelings? My guy loves me but has a hard time expressing it. Ive directly asked him to tell me but he still holds back. Also, are we greedy and wrong for wanting to hear those things???
2006-10-15 03:44:12 · 8 answers · asked by amierob2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We are not wrong but we have to realize that men are not the same. Some simply do not like to be open with thier feelings. I think that if all else is good in the relationship, this is something you are just gonna need to accept about him.
2006-10-15 03:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guys perspective....... We have to absolutely trust that whatever we say wont be made fun of, looked down upon, etc......if that isnt there....no way we open up....start off small....agree to share something of your past that you may not be too proud of...then ask him to do the same...the main thing is not to be judgemental about anything he tells you...my wife and I are able to discuss anything because we both trust that the other will never think less of us for what we say.
2006-10-15 10:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew what to tell ya, my guy does the same thing. Doesn't act sweet at all. Doesn't help me around the house either, see my question on that one. He wants to just grab and grope. and wants sex. I think a date night might help us both out. and maybe your guy might open up if he is no loger worried about where the relationship is going. Communicate your feelings to him without sounding like your blaming him.
2006-10-15 10:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by Vic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most Men, have a hard time opening up because most of us Lady's like to use what they say against them. True
2006-10-15 10:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Witchy Woman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just want a real vocal confirmation of his love for you. Doesn't every girl want to hear a guy's feelings? Take it slow, guys have more trouble speaking it, easier for them to feel it out.
2006-10-15 10:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by Fia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Hey this is a month of Ramadan..Hold your horse until ends.
2006-10-15 10:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time.. let him know u are there when he is ready...
2006-10-15 10:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by ca4btts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tequila.... lots of it.
2006-10-15 10:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by dhalia_1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋