Soceity/religion preaches us to be good person every way.
But practically nice guy never win in real world.
so we r hypocrate as reality is diffrent from what i was taught(by my parents/soceity/supporting system)?
2006-10-15 03:38:13 · 8 answers · asked by dilemma 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
REALITY IS REALITY - YOU SHOULD BE A GOOD PERSON FOR YOURSELF NOT TO PLEASE OTHERS
2006-10-15 03:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say that there are some religions that teach their patrons to kill others. I'm not saying which. But being nice to someone first is the best way to start out. I don't think it's a bad thing to protect yourself if the other turns nasty. Actually, if you can, walk away from them and try not to talk to them. I would watch my back though.
2006-10-15 10:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by greylady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many meanings to "nice", in lots of different situations. For example, being friendly and considerate will get you a better reputation among people than being nasty. The fact is, we live in a world of other human beings. It is best to cooperate with them and have friends, although of course there are limits on that. Being nice does not need to mean giving up everything you have.
2006-10-15 10:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by DadOnline 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be nice and also stand up for yourself and others without violating your morals and ethics. I noticed that in my work environment, standing up to the mean people in an aggressive manner often turns out to be the solution to protect your peers against (for lack of a better word) torture. (military) So in the end an aggressive person can use his/her strong voice to help to protect passive people that will not stand up for themselves.
2006-10-15 10:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by J G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing with me but i don't like to be like other;s hypocrites
be yourself don't get disheartened but at least you should know how to turn the tables over.....
TRUTH IS MUCH BETTER THEN FALSEHOOD
MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU AND ALL OF US AND GUIDE US FOR THE TRUE PATH AMEEN
I SUGGEST YOU TO READ THE GLORIOUS QURAN ATLEAST ONCE IN A LIFE IT WILL TEACH YOU HOW TO DEAL WITH ANY SITUATION AND GET VICTORY OVER HEART'S
PROPHET MOHAMED SUFFERED SEVERE KIND OF SITUATION'S DURING HIS LIFE JUST FOR PEOPLE TO TEACH THEM THE TRUTH AND CLEAN THE FALSEHOOD IN THERE MIND'S HE NEVER HATED ANY HUMAN BEING
HE SAID DON'T I THE SINNER I HATE THE SIN SO WE SHOULD TEACH THEM RIGHT AND WRONG DIFFERENTIATE
THE BARRIER BETWEEN TRUTH AND FALSEHOOD
AND THE GLORIOUS QURAN IS THE ONLY BOOK IN THE WORLD EVER LASTING WHICH CAN BE THE SCALE TO JUDGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TRUTH AND FALSEHOOD
TAKE CARE YOUR SELF
2006-10-15 10:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by Deepest-Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself if you like you better when you are being a good person.
ask yourself if being nice takes more energy than being angry.
ask yourself how do you like to be treated.
societies laws stem from religion if you are looking to win then the reward for this should be how you feel about you.
2006-10-15 10:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by onlyonemeg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
welllllll, i know of a 'nice guy' that win in real world - Oprah Winfrey. ever heard of her? she has a heart of gold and respects from people in her country.
2006-10-15 10:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by sqwertx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is assumin we only hav one life,
actually in reincarnation nice ppl do get ahead
2006-10-15 15:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by heartofglass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋