Tragedy of speration does that to ppl??? Need some real answers here , thanks.
2006-10-15 03:24:34 · 12 answers · asked by thedoc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It takes at least 2 yrs to get over a divorce, NOT a seperation. I don't know your situation, but be yourself and not any one else
2006-10-15 03:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by tracey s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably a little more cautious now than before. And that is ok. Don't rush out there and get into another bad relationship. You will find a date, don't worry. Do you go out? Sometimes the best place to meet a nice girl or guy is at the art museum. Sounds funny, but better than trying to meet one in a bar. The only thing you get there are drunks and losers.
2006-10-15 10:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you are separated. You have no closure to your present situation and you could be given off the wrong vibes that are not attracting men. I had the same problem for 3 years. I divorced and they kept coming, but they were wrong or going no where and I prayed and asked God for someone and after that I met the most wonderful man and we have been married almost 7 years and still counting.
2006-10-15 10:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think the reason is that you left on grounds that were not right.Maybe God closed the door on you for a while to bring you to your sense`s..Try going to church and praying about it.If you are faithful I'm sure there is a Mr right just for you.Stop and take a good look at yourself in a mirror .evaluate your life in general,.there may be some things you can change for the better. I'm sorry if I seem to be preaching at you but sometimes outsiders are our best judges
2006-10-15 10:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by xlhdrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress yourself out, I've gone on two dates and wanted to climb out the bathroom window both times. Ok it hasn't been as long for me but when your ready it will happen, you can't rush it. I just go out and have fun, meet new people and don't get all wrapped up in meeting anyone for anything other than a friend, I've never met anyone when I was looking anyway.
2006-10-15 11:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the term 'separated' scares women...it sounds temporary. If you are not yet divorced, do so . Second, stop thinking of yourself as 'separated'...you are SINGLE! its all about confidence. I know, I know....ya get turned down a few times and its in your head.." not rich enough, not young enough, not slim enough"....that's not it! If you like yourself, women will like you. If you are feeling tired of getting rejected, take a break and go fishing or play poker with your pals for a couple of weekends, then get back in the game.
2006-10-15 10:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by alanc_59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a final decree of divorce and you'll have more dates. Not many women want to become involved with a man who is still married. That is called adultery.
2006-10-15 17:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents are divorced and my mother has barely had a date since in 12 years. my advice is to just let loose a little. being seperated is tough and dating will help you feel better but it should'nt be because you want your old wife or old hubby to be jealous. just keep ur chin up and keep on keeping on.
2006-10-15 10:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by maryfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't have problems finding dates before...before you split up or before you met? maybe you are still looking for the same type of dates you were then, you are older now time to revise your dating strategy.
2006-10-15 10:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try match.com or adultfriendfinder. Obviously AFF will get you laid and match will provide you with a potential mate. You can also try a local church
2006-10-15 11:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋