my older brother rapes and beats me but im scared to tell my parents cuz he might do somin crazy?

Question

im 14 and he is 19

Answer 1

Call the police - he can't do anything to you if he's in jail.

Answer 2

Tell your parents as soon as you can. He's not going to do anything to you because hell be behind bars in jail for a long time. If your parents find out which they eventually will, they will be very disappointed that you never told them, and let this go on. I know your scared of him, but you have to fight back right now, and to do that is by telling someone. He's your brother and this is incest. He has no business raping you and beating you. This can go on for years, do you want that???? Get help now!!! Call the police if you can't tell anyone else. You should be having fun a teenage girl right now, not being raped and beat. Help yourself honey.

Answer 3

The first thing you need to do is to get the mental and emotional strength to protect yourself. Second, get proof. Sad to say, you might not be believed. Being a disbelieved victim is hard to handle. Next, go get help, from the police or school authority; get someone you can trust on your side.

My sister and I were molested by one of my parents' best friends for 6 years. We never told our parents or each other for over 15 years. Finally, he was caught. My parents, thinking he was innocent, put up money for his defense. Only then did we overcome the shame and have the strength to tell what had happened. Much lasting emotional damage was done by then.

Be strong. God bless you.

Answer 4

This is a very serious problem! You need to tell someone, and fast! This is absolutely unacceptable. If not your parents, then someone, anyone! Can you go stay with other family members? If you say nothing, he will continue. If he has no morals an has no problem raping his own sister, imagine who he might rape in a few years! You must stand up an fight! For yourself and future victims. If your family won't support you, there are groups and safe houses that will. Please, please, find the courage to do this!

Answer 5

sounds like he is already doing something crazy get away from him. Go to ur parents and if they do not react the way u think they should u need to call the police this is not appropriate and u need to get out of there before u are pregnant and have to do all that Hun u deserve better then this. u need protected from ur sick brother and he needs help for his problems. and if it is not u then it will be someone else so u need to tell .

Answer 6

What? You mean he might do something crazy you mean, like rape you or beat you? Call the police girl. Then tell your parents. If you think they won't believe you, tape it or something. Get away from this freak at all costs. You deserve a better life.

Answer 7

HI, Look i know its hard, my father molested me and my younger brother.. I know how u feel and what ur going thrugh. I dont know how old u r but, ur strong enough to post this question, ur obviously ready to do something, Tell ur parents or close family, best friends, and the police. You will need to make a statement and go through court, get yourself some cunselling, you can take someone with you if u wish to do so. Please get help this can no longer go on. It is wrong. He could be doing it other girls aswell. Help them and help you. I hope that this helps.

Best of luck sweety

Answer 8

Wow that is crazy.. u need to tell your parents.. do you have a sister
or other brother to talk to.. the guy deserves to get beat up.. seriously nobody deserves to be treated like the way he is treating u.. I cant even picture how anyone could rape their own sister

Answer 9

You have to tell your parents IMMEDIATELY! If you're afraid he'll do something crazy then make sure you're discreet when talking with them. Go to a park ore somewhere alone with your mom or dad where you can talk privately. They may not be open to hearing it right away so don't be surprised. Be sure to talk first to the one who is least likely to directly confront your brother right away until you can make a decision how the family is going to address him. Don't let the family sweep it under the rug. You must get him therapy so he doesn't continue to do it and YOU MUST get therapy, too! If you're parents aren't willing, you need to go to the police on your own. Stand firm and don't back down. You're future is too important. BUT IT MUST BE TAKEN CARE OF TODAY! YOU'RE FAMILY MUST GO TO THE POLICE TODAY! If you don't want to confront your parents, then just go to the police yourself and let them handle it.

Answer 10

Call the police, if he finds out, then go stay with a friend for a little while until they do something about it. The police can tell your parents, and then you won't have anything to worry about.
And don't wait until it's too late!

Answer 11

you need to tell. he won't hurt you because the police will take him away, the attacker always threatens to make you not tell . I let it go on 1 yr because I was afraid of him and when I did say something the only time I had to see him was in court.[i was 11 yr] don't let this happen to you any longer! you don't deserve it and never asked for it . and always remember it was never your fault. he is sick and needs help before he does it to someone else.