I need to know the mechanics of ejaculation.?

Question

I'm parapledgic and have a hard time ejaculating during sex or masturbation. I have normal erections and viagra helps allot by keeping me erect. Most times it takes an hour or more of stroking my penis before I'll ejaculate if at all. As you could assume this is very frustrating.
What I want to know is; Does the semen flow because of the pumping action on the penis or are there muscles that push the semen through the system. If it's muscles that push it through them maybe mine are just weak.
When I was a teen and masturbated often, I rarely had a problem ejaculating. But now that I don't use it very often, I think I'm losing the ability.
I guess question two is: Can I excercise this function and get back some of the ability to ejaculate.

Maybe there's someone out there that will know.

I appreciate any help as it is very frustrating.

Thank you.

Answer 1

The semen flows as a result of contraction in the prostate gland. I doubt doing it more often will help. Perhaps looking at pictures of fine looking women (like the one next to this answer) will help. Or you could go to wifelovers.com or something. Mental stimulus has more to do with it than 'exercising' it.

Answer 2

Ejaculation is a matter of both physical and psychological coordination. It isn't the pumping that moves semen through the body. It is the spasmodic muscle contractions of orgasm. Many men who aren't paralyzed note a reduction in the force of ejaculation. It's a part of getting older. Many men also note a somewhat reduced sex drive as they age. Meaning, they still think about it, and enjoy it, but things like careers, family, and general responsibilities push the importance of sex out of the central focus of a man's life.

There is an exercise that can help strengthen the muscles of the pelvic floor and aid in ejaculation. They are called Kegels (the same ones women do to strength theirs). They are done by tightening the pelvic floor. Much like holding in a bowel movement or urine when the urge is strong. Done repeatedly throughout the day, for weeks, months, or a lifetime, often improves sex as well as continence.

Answer 3

Well you seem to know already how ejaculation works it is a muscle that pumps the semen, in your case maybe anxiety is taking over from just relaxing and either thinking erotic thoughts or partner stimulating you making you feel tense cos no reaction...

There's nothing wrong with you , do you know the biggest sexual organ we have is our brain,true...

Cos take away our feeling of being inadequate and to enjoy the moment for what it is a moment of pleasure and relax n enjoy then it all will fall into place...

Of course taking medication has it's side affects if u are of course so maybe a talk to your Doc can sort this out...

Anyway mate good luck hope things improve just remain positive that's all, cos negativity is soul destroying...cheers

Answer 4

Your scrotum is not any the place close to stable sufficient to sqeeze sperm from the testicles. (which would be rather painful) The begining of the flexibility of ejaculation starts rather with the sperm leaving the testicles in the process the tubes from which they're created from. It happens by ability of chemical technique. Hormone indicators from one area of the physique tell the sperm cells what to do and the place to pass. Penile stimulation creates arousal which incorporates larger blood pass to the genital area. because of the fact the male gets close to to climax the flexibility of stimulation like I suggested motives a collection of chemical reactions with hormones signaling diverse cells and glans to do their pastime and whilst to do it. subsequently as quickly as all prepare motives ejaculation. that's an exceedingly complicated and complicated technique that takes an exceedingly in intensity understand-how of difficulty-unfastened human biology from a cellular point. that's no longer some thing that would properly be exsplained (besides as understood on an identical time) in a unmarried internet site discription. -Connor

Answer 5

ummmm.....how many times you masturbate cause if you masturbate 2-3 or more daily you will really have a hard time to ejaculate cos we need 3 days to replenish our semen after ejaculating...just wait for 3-4 days...and maybe youll hit the ceiling...hahaha just wandering

Answer 6

Hi
I think as you age , ur sexual desires will get reduced . Your priority changes and I believe this is the reason for ur problem

I think you shud try to avoid sex for some days and fantasize more ... see if you will become more enthusiastic atfer the gap...it happens with me ...

Cheers and good luck

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