i have never been in love before, not because i want to stay the successful playboy. im not braggin, but when asked the question or comments by married fellas is go ahead, u arent missin anythin g out there. the answer is yes. but i loved a woman and gave myself truly, because i believed to be the one. years later i encounterd a level of immaturity from her that was stunning and i would call it abuse when one partner is constantly seeking harmony and the other says it but acts like the devil. i am truly devastated. i truly believe that she is not capable of or worthy of supreme love, and is so insecure, that she wanted to leave than to be a woman and work. she has to fake out new friends that have no clue yet that the broad is psycho and unstable. either case. i was for real.i was true. i endured ****. i wasnt perfect. i loved for the first time. my heart hurts. i cant do it. are they any remedies?
2006-10-15 01:24:00 · 10 answers · asked by bigbam11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
everybody gets hurt in life that is the way it is. you need to pull yourself back up and get yourself out there. good luck
2006-10-15 01:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you give yourself completely to someone you are taking the risk of getting hurt. You are also making the decision that getting hurt wouldn't be as bad as missing out on loving someone. Know in your heart that you did everything you could to make things work. And also, know that there is someone out there that will benefit from all that you've learned and give you a much stronger, much more secure relationship the next time. Smile. No matter how hard it is. Smile. Pray, that helps too. Be thankful that you found love, no matter how brief. Most important, look to youself to find happiness again. You won't be happy with someone else unless you're happy with yourself.
Good luck and great love.
2006-10-15 01:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by motherclucker41 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you extremely do ought to love youself in case you prefer every physique else to..i've got faith what your dealing with. you experience such as you lost your "excitement" someplace. If music is what supplies u peace than what are you waiting for? Pray and ask God for expertise,potential and excitement. additionally you may ought to discover a grief counselor or help team, that may assist you recover from your loss.existence sucks and you at the instant are not the only individual who's experiencing those varieties of concepts or thoughts, so don't experience undesirable. dying is effortless in case you question me..that's residing thats confusing, notably once you experience like your on my own. do not up and bypass away your existence in the back of, issues have a fashion of following people.. Insted you gotta discover some thing you prefer to do. p.c.. up a interest or a music classification something that sparks your intrest!! This 2 shall bypass
2016-10-16 05:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you love someone that is such a monster to you. You have to make sense of the situation. You have to think of all the bad things that you mentioned about her, and be glad that she is far away from you. Why would you want such a monster close to you for the rest of your life? Sometimes when we are in "love" we see things different from what they truly are. You have to see the big picture. The hardest part must be to get over being with the person, maybe you just grew accustomed to her being there, but that is not love. Love is when you are loved back. OK, so i suggest you give it a month or to to get it out of your system, and get out and enjoy your life.
I believe you will be ok.
If you just can't get over her, go talk to a therapist, it helps to talk.
2006-10-15 07:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by Prixy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People really do change over time. I thought at one time that I was a good girl; but now I can see another side of myself that I never thought possible. I can really be bad; especially when I want someone. I am such a hoe sometimes.
2006-10-15 01:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by scrapper723 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing worse than risking the pain that love can bring is the emptiness of living without love.
Accept that as part of the human condition and move on with your life.
2006-10-15 02:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No a remedy but time
this is where the saying come from *TIME WILL HEAL ALL WOUND**
But the pain will pass
Good luck
2006-10-15 01:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE ARE REMEDIES BUT THE THING IS YOU HAVE TO BE PREPARED MENTALLY FOR THAT IF U DO SO U WILL SURELY COME OUT OF THE PAIN
2006-10-15 01:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by dvsh_dvsh2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all wounds&hopefully,while waititng for time to pass you might find someone better,like I did.
2006-10-15 02:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by frozen_blue.angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with motherclucker41.
2006-10-15 02:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋