i love this guy and he loves me too but hes 18 and im 3 years younger than him..we really really wanna date but we're worried about the law saying its not ok..on the other hand i dont care what the law says where as he does....but he still wants to go out with me so would it be ok to date if we dont have sex.?
2006-10-15 01:07:25 · 17 answers · asked by depressed. 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
my girlfriend say is OK.( I am 40 she 23). But we have a lot of sex!
2006-10-15 01:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I am a parent of a fifteen year old myself. I think that this is a decision that only you ,your boyfriend, and your parents can make. The law says that if you are sixteen and you choose to have sex with someone up to four years older,there isn't much a parent can do. I would let my fifteen year old see someone who is 18 if I really trusted the person and that their was some boundaries made about the amount of time spent with each other and what type of supervision would be in place. We all know that hormones run wild.
2006-10-22 23:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by carrot top 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The law varies from state to state. You can look up the law for your state online. As far as not having sex...Is this what the guy is saying? He is going to want sex unless he is celebate. Are your parents ok with you dating an 18 year old?
2006-10-15 08:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So your 15, I would check online what your State Laws are and abide by them.
If he cannot wait a few more years to date you, then there was/is a reason why he was dating you at the age of 15.
2006-10-15 08:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by wash 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not yet.... for you should wait at least 20 years before thinking about boys that much. What kind of work will you be doing, will you stay in your state or not? Lots of things to do & think about at 15 than boys!
2006-10-15 08:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by feather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly its not a good idea.. Legally speaking if you take your shoes off in the car with him its statchetory rape. I understand you dont care. But understand he is the one with everything to loose. All it takes is one of your parents and or family members not liking something he did.. and he goes to jail wether you had intercourse or not.
2006-10-22 06:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if ur 15...then its not a problem if u dont have sex but have sex wid him when ur older... like 18 and hes 21
2006-10-15 08:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by sam_aldin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is worried about the law,then he wants sex.....trust me.
2006-10-15 08:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The law is for sexual contact, not being with someone. He is being responsible. If you love him, don't put him in jeopardy.
2006-10-15 08:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ranger473 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's OK. When he's 63, you'll be 60, and there's no different then.
2006-10-15 08:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by frameofice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋