I mean ur best friend knows alot of things about you... good and >bad< things... maybe if something happens between you and him will effects on your marriage... So do you think it's a good idea getting married to your best friend sister?
2006-10-15 00:55:54 · 27 answers · asked by Abe_Ebrahimoof 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love your best friend's sister, then yes it is a fabulous idea. Who cares otherwise. If you and your best friend are close, then this will bond you for life. If you love this female.... then... marry her be happy. If your best friend truly cares for you and his sister, he will want the best for both of you.
Well, when you tie the knot, CONGRATULATIONS to you and your bride.
2006-10-15 01:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ive got first hand experience with this. My brother in law is one of my absolute best friends from high school. They dated for a very long time...and they had the occasional break ups and i can tell you it makes things very awkward for everyone. But like someone else said if he is truly a good friend it will be all good. I mean honestly im happy that i really know the person my little sis is with.
2006-10-15 10:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by babo h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the relationship you two have. If you are in love and ready to commit to spending the rest of your life with her. If you've been dating for a while, why would you be worried about what your sister knows now? I'm sure they've already discussed you at length and if you've come this far in your relationship that you're talking marriage, you should feel confident in your relationship or you shouldn't get married.The 2 of you should be able to talk over any topic if you're going to get married.
2006-10-15 08:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...if you have been dating (which of course should come first!!!) and it has been well-received by the friend, then a marriage should be well-received as well.
If you have been dating and it has been nothing but drama, and it affects both relationships negatively, then I would fix those problems first before entering into a marriage.
If those problems can't be fixed, then BAD idea...the relationship should feel natural and easy, not filled with all sorts of issues at "go".
2006-10-15 09:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you truly love her? That is the question. If you do, then it won't matter who her brother is or what happens between the two of you. Also, you don't know that anything will happen between you and your bestfriend, so why worry? It isn't necessary. Have a happy marriage.
2006-10-15 08:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the past is the past hopefully u don't do the same BAD things and of course ur best friend knows it since u think they know EVERYTHING besides its none of their business as long as u are goin to do right by them and be a person of morals doesn't matter who's siter it is even if it was Gondi's sister!
2006-10-15 08:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with her then marry her. Your best friend will become your brother-in-law. I think it is a great idea. If you are best friends, what could go wrong? Would he really tell your wife information that you talked to him in confidence? IF he would - he isn't a true friend.
2006-10-15 07:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anna F 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If something that happened that could effect your marriage then YOU should be the one to tell your future bride about it...it shouldn't just "come up". If you intend to marry ANYONE you'd better learn to be honest and truthful with them
2006-10-15 17:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aint nothing wrong with it....and if he doesnt want that to happen then he aint really yo best friend. Cause if he was he would want u to be happy. and if he was a true brother he would want his sister to be happy too and believe that his sister would make the right decision right along with u!!!!!
2006-10-15 08:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by *dat gurl_u wanna_ get to know!* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it probably will be OK because if shes really your best friend and if she cares about you and wants you to be happy then shell be happy for you and her sis. I think it would still be a good idea to ask your bf first so you ll know her true feelings on the subject.
2006-10-15 08:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by leftsidesquare@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋