I've known this girl when I joined a debate contest.She was one of our moderators. Eversince I've known her, I could not get her out of my mind.Do U think this is wt we caLed "love at 1st sight"? After dt contst, I was always lookng 4 hr around the campus. Evrytme I see her, i could not get nearer to her because she's always with her friends, and they act like' "sosyaleras". But, she's so pretty dt I could not forgt her face. And I was really surprised when I've found out dt she's my claSmte in 1 of my subjcts. But, I stl could not fnd a way to talk to her bec. we hv diff. sched. Aftr claS,they would immediately go home. And, I think she could not evn notice me evrytme I pass by her. Wt am I going to do? I could not get nearer to her and 8 seems lyk, things are diff. bet. us. But, I feel lyk crazy everytme I think of her.. What am I going to do? How would I deal with this? Please, help me... How if she's not feeling the same, but I have already fallen in love for her?
2006-10-15 00:41:30 · 6 answers · asked by jann kyle_upvcc 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Please dont mind!But what I think that this is not love!!
It is just an attraction you feel for her.
But if you think its love than better try being friends with her just by asking her anything related to your studies so that she does not find you are loving her,
Try to know her better.and then you will be able to decide that are you really in love or it was just an lnfatuation.
2006-10-15 00:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing so embarassing to speak your mind to someone who doesn't feel the same as you do. Seek to connect to the circle around her. Become a friend rather then someone in pursuit of....
Get to kjnow her on equal grounds.... What I mean, perhaps you have a hobby in common or like the same music? You say it seems that things are different between the two of you.... Well Is this only your perception (imagining things?) Try to relate rather then be desperate. Maibe you'll find a common ground to build a start.....
Please there's this other matter..... Don't worry I've been telling grown ups of, for writing English poorly. As a foreign person, I do understand English (and writing) on an academic level, but all the short language is beyond me.... This lady I told of, didn't use any interpunction that could clarify her question. Language is your cultural heritage, and as we learn to spreak across our own borders, it helps, when at least we write the same
2006-10-15 08:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Alma of Avalon Grailguard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not try hiding a note in one of her books or if she sits in the same place every day, leave a note on her chair. if your college/school has an internet site with email, try to find out her e-mail address and mail her?! you poor wee sausage - love is an awful thing!
2006-10-15 07:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by Trixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just an illusion. If it was love it would have been more expressive and intense.
2006-10-15 08:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by Rammohan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got it bad my friend... just get clsoe to her and just approach her as a friend at first then you can sort of let her know of your intentions... do somthing soon.
Please do something otherwise this will kill you inside... been there done that.
2006-10-15 07:54:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you talk to her you will never know how she fells
2006-10-15 07:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by norsmen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋