My husband got offended when i said i fantasize about other people, not him.Why would i fantasize about someone i can be with everyday?He also got upset when i said that i want to be handcuffed,just not by him.That i wouldn't enjoy him doing it to me.I was just being honest.Would you be mad?
2006-10-15 00:26:52 · 16 answers · asked by fluffer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No one said anything about cheating,we're talking fantasy here.
2006-10-15 00:38:47 · update #1
there is nothing wrong with fantasizing and if your husbnd was offended he probably took it as hes not getting the job done and about being handcuffed go try a cop they have handcuffs now if i were your husband i wouldnt be upset how could i be upset by you? your too sweet to make me mad
2006-10-15 01:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!
One of the sexiest things couples can do is talking about their fantasies. One fantasy at a time. Make it your fantasy tonight and your lovers another night. Tell your lover something that really turns you on. Make it seem like an erotic adventure or story. Tell the details; try to express why it is so hot to you. You can even just tell a story you read that you really liked.
This kind of fantasy sharing can be a great way to get to know each other. This should be a mainstay of all new couples but even if you are together years, keep checking in with each other with the sharing of fantasies. Fantasies can change over time. Do you know what your lover fantasizes about?
2006-10-15 09:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can understand why he got upset. He probably "thought" he wasn't good enough for u that u needed to fantasize about someone else, even though his reaction was a bit over the top.
2006-10-15 07:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband fantasizes about other woman too. Some things just are better not said.
2006-10-15 09:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has fantasies for other people, but there is something called KEEP UR MOUTH SHUT. U needa do that. Also i truly believe u should not cheat, but fantasize within urself , its more than okay.
2006-10-15 07:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just said you wouldnt enjoy your husband handcuffing you and performing but you want someone else to do it (that does not sound right to me) my partner fantasizes about 2 woman because that aint going to happen he doesnt tell me he wouldnt enjoy it if i was in it. that is like a personal attack against your husband.
2006-10-15 09:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by crazycase2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its a bad thing. I fantasize all the time. I may be alittle ticked off but i would get over it. He will get over it too. I am sure he has some of his own.
2006-10-15 08:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe i would be mad if he doesn't include me in the fantasy i at least want to be able to watch
2006-10-15 07:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothin wrong in fantasizing. I often do and openly speak to mi wife about it. I have been asking her if she also does fantasize! (she's been somewhat discreet about it).
2006-10-15 07:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by easyboy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all have our fantasies but you should keep it secret if it offends your partner.
2006-10-15 07:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋