If there was another woman your age, that is dating a man you once were with, and is working the job you once did (quit). What would be your feelings towards her?
2006-10-14 23:26:27 · 30 answers · asked by nunya 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I would be very Pissed off thinking that she's better than me , and that she worked things out unlike me , and i Would hate her , cuz she has wat i once had and thought was really important
2006-10-14 23:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by ♥R♥ 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy, hurt & anger. Pride & ego only if she was an upgrade but eventually happy for them, they deserve each other
Remember it's the man's choice, never blame the woman. Even if she did this in a straight forward way it's up to the man to decide what to do. Men & women are led by the same impulses & some are more aggressive in nature than others.
I know it hurts but how you get them is usually how you lose them. Karma has sharp teeth & claws & what comes around goes around. Don't give in to your comeptitive side & try to get something back that isn't good for you.
Someone better will come along for you, I hope you keep your head up & find some solace in these words. Without the specifics it's hard to cover every base but I did my best.
You will get through this time truly does heal all wounds Do whatever you have to do to get thru but try to go to your happy place & don't do anything that will make you feel worse. I'll keep you in my prayers.
2006-10-15 06:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by tae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would be concerned for her. If I quit the job and the man. something is very wrong with both! Hopefully she will realize she is not in the best situation before she gets hurt or used up. or maybe she is better suited for both than I . In that case I wish all well.
2006-10-15 06:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you asked the ladies to respond, but I could not resist.
Afterall I do get 2points for this and the possible 10 points bonus from you.
If I were the lady in question, my reaction would depend on whether this other woman is a friend of mine or not. If she was a friend i would possibly warn her about what went wrong for me. If I dont know her, I would leave her to fate.
2006-10-15 07:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by cooldude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem with that, the only thing I would be thinking is that she is getting herself in a bad situation with dating the same b*&#$!d I once dated.
2006-10-15 12:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by pgenius3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i still have feelings for the man, well, i'd be quite jealous with her and with that added she have the job you once had. but it happens. all i can do is to move on and make my own life better. thats what i think.
just forget the woman... move on.
2006-10-15 06:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by misscoyote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I wasnt with him anymore I might wonder why she would want to be with him; I would be interested in being able to perceive the reason why they like each other. It would depend on why I left the job; if it was because I hated something about it I would wonder why she didnt also
2006-10-15 06:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by isis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, she is with a man, I obviously did not want or I would still have him. And working a job, i obviously did not want or I would still be there. So what, this should mean that you have done better for yourself. Good luck and God bless.
2006-10-15 06:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would like to meet with her,It would be a start to a great friendship between 2 person who understands each other well..And if she isn't that nice..so look at her face and say ''Left-overer!!'' than go out for a walk.
2006-10-15 06:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by I_have_sth_to_say 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over it, is the past we cannnot change the present to make ourself happy. we got to smile and glad it hpapen and now time for a new fresh start.. be happy that you once there and time to move on.. you do not want to look like a loser.
2006-10-15 08:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just move on with my life. Don't worry about her. Eventually you will find a good man and not even think about it anymore.
2006-10-15 08:47:52 · answer #11 · answered by Kelly m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋