There was this girl that i had a crush on in 8th grade, we were friends and we hung out ALOT, i dont know if she ever knew how i felt about her but it seemed that everytime that we hung out i liked her more and more. I belive that i could have had a major effect on her life compared to what it is today. Its complicated and i dont mean to sound cocky, but if she would have been with me then she wouldnt have been with the people she was and she wouldnt be where she is now. Well recently ive begun thinking more and more about her, wondering about her and thinking about her, i am in a relationship right now, but i think she should know how i felt about her and i just want to tell her. I talk to her on occasion but im not sure if i should tell her, she is also in a relationship and has been for quite sometime. I dont know if it would be weird or what. So the question is do you think i should tell her about it or no.
2006-10-14 21:32:37 · 7 answers · asked by Don A 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i have no intention of breaking up with my current girlfriend. It was just a crush that i HAD on a good friend of mine. I am curious if i should tell her how i felt, no i dont want her to break up with her current boy friend. Yea i love her, but as a friend loves another friend. I no longer have a crush on her, and i think she might be suprised to know how i really felt all along. So im asking do you think it would be weird to tell her now?
2006-10-14 22:09:42 · update #1
as long as your honest with her in what your looking for out of telling her (be it absolutely nothing other then letting her know your about your secrete crush you HAD on her, or you still have on her and you would like to know if she wants to act on it) there is nothing wrong with telling her. The big thing that would be wrong would be telling her and not telling her the whole truth. Don't lie about it, just be honest.
2006-10-14 21:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by cpt_rose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a bit strange being so young too worry over such things. It's not like you two are in marriages. Go ahead and get it off your mind!
Maybe you'll clear the air and move on.
2006-10-15 04:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Telling her about it means"I still love you and i am ready to brake up my relationship for you,if you do the same thing for me"Alsow being with one woman and thinking about another ,is not the way to do it.Make up your mind and stop playing.It is not fair to the woman you are with.
2006-10-15 04:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's in a relationship. Either wait, or move on. Your choice.
2006-10-15 04:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Nicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably been waitin' for you to ask her for a long time
2006-10-15 04:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by The angel from your nightmare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea go on
2006-10-15 04:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is happy in her relation, wish her luck, and leave her alone..... dont make her hesitate....
2006-10-15 04:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by alien0n05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋