I am 15 year old female and ! have been having very bad vaginal soreness so much that I double over in pain. It hits me very fast and hard. I can barely breath when it hits me and when I feel it its around 2 to 3 hours before it goes away. My mother thinks it will go away. I have never had sex before, but i do use a dildo*she dosnt not know this*. Asking my friends, they ask if I clean it and yes I do. But the one thing is I can be 'rough' sometimes..
I know I should go to an obgyn. but to ask my mother.. well.. thats really a last resort. I have stopped using a dildo cuase I am in so much pain. I have told my boyfriend cuase it is so bad and hes wondering why Im screaming in pain out of no where, and he is really pressuring me to do something cuase he and i both know that it could be something serious. PLEASE HELP ME!
^really embarrissing^ lol
2006-10-14
21:26:22
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well pueberty is not the case and sperm is not the case either..*lol*
and thank you i think you all convinced me... my boyfriend is really pressing this.. and im in pain right now.. thank you!
2006-10-14
21:47:40 ·
update #1
and now im on my period and i have always got the worst cramps.. so add that.. and its easier to post somehting like this to people i dont know.. rather than to tell my own mother.. cuase we dont have the greatest relationship.. but last night after i got all the answers *thank you* i showed my boyfriend and i thought he was gonna drag me out of bed and take me to the hospital right then.. and i cant go to a school nurse cuase im home-schooled.. so last night i broke down.. and sat there and pretty much cried when my boyfriend put things in a very scary perspective.. and i need to go to some form of doctor.. and im working on it.. thank you for all your help..
2006-10-15
06:52:30 ·
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Last resort or not, go to a doctor! If your mother won't take you, go to the emergency room. Screaming in pain is an indication that it's something serious.
2006-10-14 21:28:46
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answered by Min02 4
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You using a dildo should not cause any soreness or pain, unless you are using it 24/7 which I do not think is the case. Please go see a doctor. Do you have any other symtoms? This could be a sign of Ovarian cancer or it could just be something as simple as puberty. However, you definately need to get it checked out. It is not the best way, but guilt your mom into taking you. Tell her Okay Mom, it could be something serious and I could die but if you don't want to take me to the doctor then fine.... It worked with my mom. If she just refuses, then find out from your school nurse where there is a free clinic in your town and go there!!!!! Do not wait until it is to late.
2006-10-14 21:35:41
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answered by laraprice2002 2
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GO TO THE DOCTOR - stop using the dildo till you sort it out and perhaps you should work on your relationship with your mother - if you can tell a bunch of total strangers with nothing more to do than sit around stickybeaking into each others lives then SURELY you can find it somewhere inside yourself to have a more honest relationship with the woman who gave birth to you!!!!! She might act prudish when you tell her but as you get older you will learn that you could've told your mum so much more than you ever did - we mothers love you our kids so much more purely than you can understand yet - if you are scared then you have to tell her gently - not all the gory details of how rough you are etc....simply what you have done that you have done - you dont even have to tell her that you own a dildo, but she just might surprise you with her care - she's your mother and duty bound to care....motherly love to you....I hope my kids feel they can tell me anything....
2006-10-14 22:10:32
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answered by ABCugetME 2
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Ten days to a number of weeks postpartum, you may have already got whitish to whitish yellow lochia. Its already 2 months postpartum.in spite of the undeniable fact that, the brownish discharge could be coming from a wound on the vaginal section in view that's painful once you urinate. actual lochia is admixed with mucoid textile coming from the uterus. no count if it is not mucoid , in all probability it got here from the vaginal section in basic terms. greater constructive seek for advice from lower back inclusive of your OB so she will have direct visualization of the section. Lacerations are sutured with absorbable catgut and each from time to time it dissolves at a sluggish fee and the factor of suturing whilst moist with urine gets painful.each and all of the comparable see your OB.
2016-12-26 19:40:28
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answered by Anonymous
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You definitely got an infection of some kind.Please go see a doctor before it gets worse.If you don`t do anything about it the infection could spread and you will end up with a hysterectomy.
PLEASE SEE A DOCTOR AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
2006-10-14 21:31:59
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answered by spatz 3
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Maybe if somebody used your "toy" and got sperm on it right before you used it ...but the odds of that are very high . Sounds like a UTI or a vaginal infection...go see the doctor and if they embarrass you sue them!!!
2006-10-14 21:33:03
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answered by budlowsbro420 4
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go to the doctor.. your mom should understand if you ask her because she will know that it has been bothering you... and you can ask her to stay in the lobby during the visit so you can share everything with the doctor "use of dildo".. Good luck
2006-10-15 03:41:36
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answered by Anonymous
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2016-07-03 10:01:11
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answered by Emery 3
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tell your mom that it is really bad and you need a doctor... you dont have to tell her about the dildo and when you go to the doctor ask to go in alone because it is embarasing
2006-10-14 21:29:27
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answered by Anonymous
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To be honest, I don't think it's anything to do with using your vibrator. It really could be any number of things, so that's why I'd advice you to go to your doctor. It's nothing to be embarrassed about, things happen...but leaving it is asking for trouble.
2006-10-15 00:42:51
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answered by ? 3
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